NIALL Horan’s rumoured model girlfriend Jessica Serfaty has been accused of
leaving her son without a mother figure by making celebrity boyfriends and
Hollywood fame her priority.
The America’s Top Model beauty began hooking up with the One Direction hottie
in May after they went on dates in LA and Las Vegas.
Before that, she dated boyband star Joe Jonas and has become known on
Instagram for saucy images showing her soaking up the Hollywood lifestyle in
bikinis and on nights out.
The catwalk queen legally shares parenting duties for Roman, 7, with ex Ididia
Serfaty yet he has spoken out to say her seeming lack of physical presence
in the lad’s life is a “sore point”.
He confessed she takes “just six weeks in the summer” as mother and
son time when she flies to the pair’s home in Arkansas despite the couple’s
divorce decree allowing the youngster to visit her one a month – so long as
he doesn’t skip school.
Yummy mummy Jessica had Roman when she was just 16 then married Ididia a year
later.
Her ex-hubby said: “So she sees Roman six weeks out of every year and
some Christmases. Last Christmas she didn’t see him.
“But she’s young. She’s probably not thinking about us.”
“It’s hard not to think of yourself when you are trying to build a
Hollywood career.”
Jessica, who recently starred in Blood Brothers, now lives in LA.
Her latest Instagram snaps show her soaking up the sunshine in a snazzy V-neck
costume which she posted with the cryptic message: “Magic happens when
you allow yourself to stop and be present.”
Meanwhile she revealed she’d taken some time off to spend her birthday on the
ski slopes.
She has hit back at her ex’s comments and revealed she speaks to her only
child on the phone “every other day”.
Ididia and baby Roman lived with the star in Hollywood until their
relationship turned sour and the family re-located to Arkansas to give
things a final go.
Yet despite lifting the lid on her parenting from a distance the single dad
said he doesn’t want to “bash” the babe – and instead wants her to
focus on being a good mum.
After staying single since their split he said: “I would rather empower
Jessica to be the mum that I know she is than deteriorate the mum she is by
criticism.’
“When she’s older she’s going to regret it. You know she’s partying with
these guys from boybands and whatever but that will only last five minutes.
“The bottom line is these are his formative years and she’s never going
to get them back.”
In response, pretty Jessica said she had offered to move the pair to
California so they could be all be closer to each other.
She added they were “coming close” to an agreement which could again
see them co-parent.
Jessica, 25, said: “Money and success are great but there’s something
about family and being away from your child. I sometimes want to leave
everything and go back home but the thing is I have a bigger vision and I’ve
worked really hard for a long time and I love what I do.
“I see Roman out here playing in the water and I just want him to live
here – he loves California he always asks all the time, ‘When can I go to
California?’ He asks his dad when he’s going to move to California.”
She added: “There’s nothing more that I want to see his father to be a
successful and for us to be two strong individuals raising a child together.”
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Ididia’s pain also stems from the fact both he and the brunette grew up
without a dad and only visited their absent parent during the seasonal
holidays.
He added he wanted the situation to be different for his youngster and was
eager to swerve any similarities to his childhood.
“Roman wants to see his mum, he loves seeing her,” Ididia explains. “In fact
he wanted to go to LA to see her for Spring Break.
“When he got the news that he couldn’t go we were at the grocery store and he
was on Facetime with her and he just said: ‘What’s my answer? Yes or no? Yes
or no?’ because she had to get off the phone.”
Talking about her ex’s comments the babe said she realised he was “frustrated”.
She “I don’t want people to think that I’m not involved
in Roman’s life when I am – very much so – I send him kid books and I buy
the same ones so we can read them together on Face Time.”