JESSICA HAYES is set to have her most lavish Christmas yet – without spending
a penny.
Under her tree will be an Apple MacBook Pro for her dad, an Xbox for her
brother, perfume for her mum and designer lingerie for friends.
And that’s without the £8,000 of Santa’s booty she has snapped up for herself.
But Jessica won’t be hit with bills in the new year because they will be paid
by the lonely men that she meets online and calls her “paypigs”.
Jessica, 21, is a rinser — a woman who trawls the internet looking for men to
buy her whatever she wants.
She funded her £10,300 haul of festive treats by asking them to pick something
off her wishlist while she talked to them via a webcam dressed in her
undies.
Jessica, of Oxford, says: “I’ve been able to spend a fortune on loved ones
this year. I have loads of stuff worth more than £10,000 and it’s not even
Christmas yet.
“I’ve done all my shopping and haven’t had to fight my way through the crowds
or spend a penny of my own money.”
As well as a top-of-the-range laptop and PS4, Jessica is awaiting tons of
pricey stocking fillers.
She is being treated to a £3,000 white-gold bracelet, a £2,000 Samsung 55in
smart TV with built-in webcam, a £150 Michael Kors watch, a £370 Michael
Kors handbag and £800 Christian Louboutin heels plus an iPhone 6, worth more
than £600.
Jessica says: “It sounds crazy that men are handing over hundreds of pounds to
chat to me on a webcam, but it’s true.
“I’ve never met any of them and never will. It’s not a sexual thing — they
just like it when I show them some attention.
“If they want to spend money on me, who am I to complain?
“When I worked as a mortgage adviser in a bank, I took home £1,000 in a month
and was stuck in an office eight hours a day.
“Now, with my paypigs — the men who fund my Amazon wishlists — I can make
£1,000 a day just by sitting around and speaking to them in my underwear.”
At the more affordable end of Jessica’s Christmas wishlist are sets of undies
she can wear in front of her fans and fake eyelashes, which cost just £3.89.
Jessica, who has only been working as a rinser for 12 months but has already
made more than £80,000, says: “I think it’s nice to have something there for
every budget. In my line of work, you can never have too many lingerie sets.
“Some guys might only be able to afford something little — like make-up or a
bikini — but no matter how small, I’m thankful.
“One of my guys has treated me to a TV with a built-in webcam, as it means we
can chat on it together and every time I go online, I will think of him.”
Jessica’s pals will also be having a bumper Christmas this year, thanks to her
generous paypigs.
She says: “I’ve asked for a lovely watch for my best friend and if I say I’m
having a night out during the holidays, then one of the guys will put some
cash in my PayPal account so I can treat my friends to drinks. I’ve had all
kinds of things, from iPads and Louis Vuitton bags to Louboutin shoes and
Herve Leger bandage dresses.”
Jessica admits she has chatted to all kinds of men online, from foot
fetishists to those who dress up in their wife’s underwear.
She says: “Most of the time they want me to dominate them, tell them they are
pathetic and worthless and that I am their mistress so must do what I say.
One man asked me to order him to dress in his wife’s underwear, take a photo
and send it to me so I could blackmail him. I’d never do that, but that was
what he got off on.
“It’s weird because I’m generally polite to the guys that get in touch but
they don’t like that. They like you to be horrible and behave like a spoilt
brat.
“One friend was offered £1,000 to park her car in a muddy field and film
herself trying to push it out while covered in muck!”
A lot of Jessica’s paypigs are too scared to show their faces on a webcam so
hand over cash to chat via Instant Messenger.
She says: “People do ask me what the guys get out of it and I say someone to
talk to. By treating me, it makes them feel like they are part of my world.
“In their eyes, that’s something quite glamorous and maybe quite far removed
from their own lives.
“I can tell that some of the men are just lonely but others I have seen on
camera and they are good looking, successful men in their thirties and
forties.
“With them, it’s all about getting attention from the kind of girl they may
have fantasised about in lads’ mags when they were growing up and chatting
to a model is a real buzz.”
Although there are many perks to her job, single Jessica says she’s had to
make some sacrifices — including relationships.
She says: “Guys just can’t get their head round what I do.
“They don’t like the thought of me speaking with other men and taking my
clothes off for them.
“It is a bit of a pain but I can kind of see why they have an issue.
“I think the fact my clients shower me with lots of gifts makes it more of a
problem, too.
“I know girls who are lap dancers and they have boyfriends who don’t have a
problem with what they do.
“But I’ve been seeing guys before and when I have to explain that another man
has paid for an expensive pair of shoes or a bag, they go mad and get very
jealous.
“They can’t see why a man would spend that money and not get anything in
return.
“A lot of people say the same when I tell them what I do.
“Guys my own age would never be able to treat me to £500 designer shoes and
they feel belittled.
“I would like to meet a nice boyfriend but they have to accept what I do.
“At this time in my life my work has to come first.”
Jessica confesses she has had some clients who have pushed the boundaries and
tried to get too close to her.
She says: “I only speak to guys through the webcam because I do think that
you’ve got to be careful.
“I don’t give out my mobile phone number or send texts or videos.
“People often follow me on social networks such as Twitter and Instagram, so
they can interact with me on there.
“That is more than enough and if they ask me to post a photograph I sometimes
will — as a treat.”
Jessica says she tries not to think too much about the background of the men
she speaks to.
She adds: “If men want to spend their money making me happy, that’s up to
them. I try not to think that they may have wives or families.
“I have a lovely life, thanks to their generosity.
“I know it won’t last for ever — I can only do this while I’m young and
good-looking — but right now I have no complaints.”
Total for gifts bought for family by paypigs
DAD: MacBook Pro £899
MUM: Jo Malone perfume £82
GHD Aura hairdryer £145
iPad Air 2 £469
BROTHER: Xbox One console £379
Fitbit Flex exercise band £59.99
Sonicare Diamond Electric Toothbrush £250
Total: £2,283.99
Presents from paypigs to Jessica
Eternity bracelet £3,135
Samsung 55” Smart TV £1,980
GHD IV hair styler £89
Microbrasion kit £50
Mulberry handbag £895
Kurt Geiger boots £350
Herve Leger dress £922
iPhone 6 plus £619
Total: £8,040
OVERALL XMAS HAUL £10,323.99
‘There’ll be a price to pay’
By Dr PAM SPURR, Behaviour Expert
DR SPURR says: “Despite trying to sound like she cares about the men she
rinses, how much does someone like Jessica really care when she calls them
‘paypigs’?
“That nickname says it all – deep down, she thinks they’re dirty and
disgusting.
“But doesn’t that reflect on a rinser, too? That there’s something degrading
in what they do.
“There are so many problems rinsers don’t foresee, such as their future
relationships being jeopardised.
“Although Jessica has found regular boyfriends she’s met outside of work, they
have been put off by what she does and others may not realise until it’s too
late.
“Rinsers also jeopardise future jobs when they decide they’ve had enough of
men asking them to do unusual things – potential employers aren’t going to
like their online histories.
“Then there are rinsers who get desperate for more cash and branch out into
doing things that damage their self-esteem.
“There are also issues brewing when you view men as cash cows – or ‘pigs’, as
the case might be – and turn them into objects.
“It’s too easy to stop seeing men as people with feelings, struggling with
loneliness and, in some cases, marriages they should be working on, not
frittering their money and time away on a rinser.
“It may seem like easy money now but nothing in life is free and Jessica will
have a price to pay later in some shape or form.”