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SHE WON'T LET GO

My jealous ex is stalking me and does not understand I have moved on

DEAR DEIDRE: I’M being harassed by my ex, but she doesn’t understand that I don’t want her in my life any longer.

When we were together she demanded to know where I was all the time and would get jealous if I was talking with a female work colleague.

I have tried to explain to her I have moved on
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I have tried to explain to her I have moved onCredit: Alamy

She drove me crazy and I felt I was under ­constant surveillance, so I ended things.

My new girlfriend is the polar ­opposite to my ex. She’s 25 and I’m a 28-year-old guy. My ex is 29.

My ex is now bombarding me with texts and she waits outside my house in her car.

She is desperate to get back with me, but I’ve had it with her.

How can I get through to her?

DEIDRE SAYS: You have to be firm with her.

Be clear that you no longer feel the same way about her – without being unkind.

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My e-leaflet called Ending A Relationship will ensure that she, thoughtfully, gets the message.

If things don’t improve for you, find support through the National Stalking Helpline (0808 802 0300, ).

They will help anybody who feels frightened or intimidated because of the behaviour of somebody else.

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