I didn’t even know my partner had a credit card – or £7000 worth of debt
DEAR DEIDRE: I DON’T think my partner would have ever told me about his £7,000 debt if I hadn’t discovered it myself.
He’s 36, I’m 37, and we’ve been together for three years.
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Last week, a letter arrived with the words “final notice” printed on the front.
I sort out all our bills, so I thought it must have been a mistake.
But it was a default notice, stating that my partner owed the bank £150 for a missed payment for his credit card – one I didn’t know he had.
When I confronted him about it, he admitted that he was in a “little bit of trouble”.
He’s overdrawn on both his bank accounts and owes £5,000 on his credit card.
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I’m less annoyed at the money – that’s fixable.
What’s got to me is the fact he’s lied to me for months.
DEIDRE SAYS: Maybe he didn’t tell you because he was worried how you’d react. Or perhaps he wanted to get it sorted first.
But also consider relationship counselling. Experts at will be able to help you to learn to trust again.