Bex admits it is not working out with her new man and ends rebound fling

DEIDRE SAYS: Dear Bex... Most of us have done this – got together with someone hoping they will start to feel more.

It’s a gamble and unfortunately you lost. The more time you spent with Ted, the more you fell for him.

Sadly your feelings weren’t reciprocated.

To his credit he was honest that he wasn’t looking for a relationship with you, but it will hurt that he has now committed to someone else.

Don’t take it personally and there definitely isn’t anything to be gained from comparing yourself to her.

The best tack now is to look forward and busy yourself with other interests and friends.

One day, you will look back on this period without feeling any of the emotional sting.

I’m sending you my support pack Moving On to help you.

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