Jealous boyfriend loses his mind if male pal messages me on Snapchat
DEAR DEIDRE: I SHOWED my boyfriend a message from a male friend on Snapchat and now he says he can’t trust me.
We are both 17 and got on brilliantly.
We are from different friendship groups.
While his friendship group is mainly boys, I hang around with girls and boys.
We constantly message one another as mates.
I opened a message in front of my boyfriend and he asked to see my Snapchat threads.
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Now he’s accusing me of flirting.
I can’t seem to be able to reassure him.
I don’t want to lose him but he is being so moody that I don’t think we can stay together.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Stop wasting your energy. You cannot convince him if he does not want to believe you.
This is all about his insecurity – not about anything you have done wrong.
See your friends and find the courage to tell this boy it is over.
Tell him you refuse to be told who you can and cannot be friends with.
If he accepts he is in the wrong, my support pack, Coping With Jealousy, can help him.
