My colleague is making my life a misery – I dread going into work now
DEAR DEIDRE: MY colleague is making my life a misery but I worry her behaviour would get worse if I report her to my boss.
I am a 33-year-old woman and have Asperger’s.
I find certain social situations challenging and I have to work harder to express what I mean. I often worry about being misunderstood.
The workplace is a tough environment for me to deal with at times.
I regularly feel isolated and alone. I work in a café in a very busy shopping centre.
I enjoy my job, but have a volatile relationship with one colleague.
She shows a total lack of understanding towards my condition. She is abrupt and rude, or ignores me completely.
If I become upset she calls me a cry-baby. I now dread going to work.
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DEIDRE SAYS: No one should have to put up with being bullied at work.
Everyone should be treated with dignity and respect.
Your colleague is making you miserable, so your best option is to talk to your boss or your HR department.
I know you are worried but her behaviour won’t stop until you do and you’ll end up ill or forced out of your job if her treatment continues.
Put together a diary of when these events happen, including dates and times. Your boss should investigate.
You can also talk to Acas which helps with work problems (acas.org.uk, 0300 123 1100).
