Moving in with my disabled girlfriend would leave us worse off
DEAR DEIDRE: Although I love the idea of moving in with my girlfriend, her disability means we’ll be much worse off financially if we cohabit.
It seems really unfair and I’m not sure what to do for the best.
I’m 47 and my girlfriend is 39. She has MS and gets disability benefits.
We met online three years ago. We both live in one-bedroom flats in the same city.
We’d like to move our relationship on a stage and live together. It also makes sense not to pay two lots of rent and bills.
But my girlfriend has been told she’ll lose most of her benefits if she lives with me.
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DEIDRE SAYS: The benefits system is complex but your girlfriend is correct. Her ESA (employment and support allowance) will stop if she moves in with you as a couple.