DEIDRE SAYS: BISEXUALS are the largest group in the LGBTQ+ community and yet it is still difficult for people who are bi to come out.
It can be exhausting, which is why Tom didn’t want to tell you he was bi.
There are still so many prejudices around being bi. The most common being that bi people are really gay but not ready to admit to it.
But it depends on the individual and what they are looking for. Tom wanted a relationship with you, but you weren’t ready to listen.
Some bi people have same sex fantasies but are happy in their relationship, others have had sex with both genders but only want to date one gender, others have sex and date both genders.
My support pack Bisexual Questions explains more.
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