TOTAL RUBBISH
My binman boyfriend has been sending filthy sexts and selfies to another woman
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DEAR DEIDRE: I THOUGHT my binman partner was a diamond in the rough, until I found filthy sexts on his phone.
I’m 36 and he’s 40, we’ve been together for eight years.
He’s seemed preoccupied recently, so I looked through his phone and found sexy texts between him and another woman.
He’d even sent her lusty selfies, all dressed in his work clothes like a mucky Magic Mike.
He says I’m overreacting and that it’s not being unfaithful. Help.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Trust is essential in a relationship.
Even if your boyfriend hasn’t had a physical affair, he’s been talking to someone else in secret.
Find a time when you’re both calm and explain exactly why you feel betrayed, and that this counts as cheating to you.
Work out together how to keep things good between you – strengthening your relationship is the best defence against any outside interest.
My support pack Cheating – Can You Get Over It? spells out how to get back on track.