DEAR DEIDRE

My husband had sex with a prostitute days before our wedding – I don’t know if I can ever trust him again

I feel humiliated and don’t know if I can ever trust him again

DEAR DEIDRE: THE best man at my wedding got so drunk he let slip that my husband has cheated on me three times since we got engaged six months ago.

The last time on his stag weekend with a prostitute, one week before we got hitched.

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I feel humiliated and don’t know if I can ever trust him again.

I am 32 and my husband is 35. We were together for three years before we married.

It wasn’t until I started helping his best friend, who had passed out at the reception, that I learned the truth.

His best friend was a mess and so me and one of my girlfriends started to help him up to his bedroom.

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That’s when he started going on about how lovely I was and how my husband didn’t deserve me.

He continued to list the three women he’d slept with behind my back.

A one-night stand, a woman from his work and a hooker on his stag weekend.

When I confronted my new husband he apologised once and seemed to think it was dealt with.

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Apparently, I didn’t need to worry about the one-night stand, “it didn’t mean a thing”, he was “only comforting his work colleague”, whose boyfriend was dragging his heels over a proposal.

And as for the prostitute “that was a bit of stag fun”.

At least he has since applied for a new job and blocked all contact with his work colleague. He says he regrets everything.

But I’m struggling with the fact he had sex with three different people, especially so close to our wedding.

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