THANK YOU

I listened to your advice over controlling boyfriend and set new rules

I decided to stay, but also to set boundaries and to then see if he can stick to them

DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN my boyfriend started becoming jealous and demanded that I put a photo of him on my social media, I started to see red flags.

He was reading my phone messages and putting pressure on me to move in with him – or break up.

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My friends and family said he was bad news but I was torn and needed an objective opinion.

I’m 48 and he is 52. We met online and had been dating for a year.

You told me I should listen to my instincts.

You said it sounded like he was being controlling and wanted me all to himself.

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If my friends and family didn’t like him and he was giving me ultimatums that made me feel uncomfortable, then it was likely he would not make me happy long-term.

You sent me your support pack,­­ ­Abusive Partners, so I could look out for the signs of this in his behaviour.

I decided to stay, but also to set boundaries and to then see if he can stick to them.

Your advice and information gave me the tools – and the strength – to do this.

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Thank you for your fast, honest and helpful response.

DEIDRE SAYS: I’m glad I was able to help you think things through in this difficult situation. I hope your relationship improves.

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