DEAR DEIDRE
I’m enjoying long afternoons of sex with older customer – I feel guilty about my pregnant girlfriend
I’m struggling to stay away from her because the sex we have is always fantastic.
DEAR DEIDRE: I AM a handyman but spend more time in my customer’s bedroom than on the long list of DIY jobs she has given me.
She is much older than me but I can’t keep her hands off me.
We’ve been enjoying long afternoons of great sex and she is keen to give me more jobs but I’m struggling with a growing sense of guilt.
I have a girlfriend I’ve been with for eight years, who is heavily pregnant with our first child.
I’m 35 and a few months back I was called by this woman to do an emergency repair to her roof.
It was a simple job and wasn’t going to take me long — a slate had been damaged in a storm and water was getting in.
She made me a cup of tea as I worked. She is well into her late fifties but still very attractive with a great figure.
She told me her husband never fixed anything and that it was difficult to find someone locally who didn’t charge the earth.
After fixing the roof she called me again to do another job.
This time she was wearing a skimpy pair of pyjamas.
I realised I was staring so I said something about her having a great figure.
She seemed pleased and told me the problem that needed fixing was in the airing cupboard.
I followed her as she slowly went upstairs and led me into a bedroom. We ended up having passionate sex.
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It’s now become a regular thing when her husband is away with his job.
I’m struggling to stay away from her because the sex we have is always fantastic.
My girlfriend is 29 and can’t wait to be a mum. She’s so excited about the pregnancy but, if I’m honest, I’m not.
I have to put an end to the secret sex before my girlfriend finds out the truth.
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DEIDRE SAYS: You absolutely have to stop this dead-end affair.
Your girlfriend needs you and so will your child.
This woman may give you great sex but that comes with the huge cost of risking your most important relationships.
Don’t lose your girlfriend and baby and live a life of regret.
Perhaps sex with your girlfriend is not very satisfying or frequent right now, but this doesn’t mean you and she can’t give one another sexual pleasure.
My support pack Can’t Be Faithful? explains more.
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