Caught my girlfriend in bed with another man… and then he did something I really didn’t expect
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DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN I caught my girlfriend in bed with another man, he grabbed a knife from the kitchen and cut my arms.
My girlfriend is 24 and I’m 23. She was always hitting on other guys and thought it was funny, especially when I’d confront her and threaten to leave.
She’d plead with me to stay with her.
I got off work early one Friday last month and caught her in bed with another guy. I shouted at her and chased him downstairs.
He must have thought I was going to hit him because he slashed me with a carving knife. I had to go to hospital and needed stitches.
She insisted they hadn’t done anything but they were both in their underwear.
We’ve since split up but she wants me back. I don’t know whether I still love her.
DEIDRE SAYS: This isn’t the first time she’s let you down. She’s a serial flirt and now she’s cheated by being in bed with somebody else.
One bit of flirting you might forgive but this shows you she can’t stick to one relationship.
She’s bad news and you deserve better. My e-leaflet, Your Woman Cheating On You, should help you end it for good and move on.
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