Boyfriend has the hots for my older sister but still uses me for sex

DEAR DEIDRE: I THINK my boyfriend likes my sister and just uses me for sex.

I’m 18 and he is 32. We’ve been together for four months. After a month he said he didn’t want to be with me because of my age, but we talked about it and agreed to try again.

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Everything was going well until my older sister invited him to her 21st birthday party. We went for a meal and then clubbing afterwards.

He gave her lots of expensive birthday presents and danced with her more than he did with me.

Last month he told me we’re not in a relationship any more but he still texts me in “dirty” language and booked a hotel for us to have sex.

I don’t know if it’s me over-thinking it but I worry he likes my sister more and is just using me.

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DEIDRE SAYS: You are right. So don’t let him mess you around – you’re worth so much more.

Tell him you can’t see him, let alone have sex with him, if he’s interested in your sister. Be firm that you’ll only see him if he’s going to commit to you.

I suspect you won’t see him for dust. My e-leaflet Mend Your Broken Heart will help.

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