I had drunken sex with my sister-in-law and her mate and I want to do it again
DEAR DEIDRE: I HAD the most amazing sex with my wife’s younger sister and the sister’s best mate.
It was a drunken mistake but I’d like to do it again.
I’m 31 and my wife is 33. We’ve been together for 12 years and I’ve never put a foot out of line before.
I always liked her younger sister. She is 28 and was already seeing her husband-to-be when I came on to the scene.
I got on with him well and the four of us went for nights out and shared trips to Spain.
The last time we went, I was struck by the sight of my sister-in-law on the beach. It hit me how gorgeous she is but, of course, she was way out of bounds.
I was totally shocked when my wife said her sister had thrown out her husband because he had been cheating on her.
I thought they were made for each other and I couldn’t believe he had been playing away, as she’s a beautiful girl.
My wife was away on a training weekend when I got a text from my sister-in-law. She said her car wouldn’t start. I fix cars for a living and said I’d help out.
I got the car started no problem, then she invited me in for a beer.
She had a friend with her, a girl I know. They were both in high spirits and kept pouring me beers though they knew I had to drive home. Then they said I should stay for the night and that seemed an amazing idea.
I ended up having sex with those two lovely girls. In the morning I said we should never repeat what we did but, if I’m honest, I have thought about little else since then.
My sister-in-law keeps sending me sexy texts and I know she is keen. I don’t want to have sex with my wife any more, as it seems really boring with her.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Your sister-in-law’s marriage break-up has rocked your world and your view of the way other people behave.
It’s made you think: “Well, if he can do that, so can I.”
And you can if you like – it is your choice. Only you can decide on the person you want to be.
But you have been happy with life until now, so be careful you don’t throw away something good.
Having a threesome was risky and fun but you know you were playing with fire.
One drunken night is an error of judgment, a brief fall from grace.
If you do it again, you will be turning your back on the love and the trust you have built up with your wife over the years.
I doubt she would ever forgive you, so don’t push your luck – unless you feel sure your marriage is dead.
My e-leaflet 50 Ways To Add Fun To Sex can help you rekindle the spark at home.
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