Polyamourous throuple say they are all equal but only he has sex with wife and girlfriend who is 23-years-younger
A MARRIED couple who tied the knot just one week after meeting have now invited another woman into their relationship - and she's 23-years his junior.
Rodrigo Contreras Diaz, 41, and Melin Velasco Reyes, 31, from Mexico first met in 2012 after being introduced by a mutual friend with the pair hitting it off right away which led to Rodrigo popping the question the very same day.
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Despite only having eyes for his wife, who's a nutritionist, the marketing entrepreneur explained to her early on in their relationship that he didn’t want a traditional monogamous relationship as he lived an alternative lifestyle and was open to a polyamorous relationship, which she accepted.
But after four years of marriage and focusing on their relationship, the couple re-visited the idea of switching things up and decided to begin their search for another woman to join them in their union.
While enjoying a night out at a bar in Mexico, the married couple met a waitress Lucy who was just 18 and in high school at the time.
Initially Lucy was shocked when Rodrigo began flirting with her in front of Melin, but after a few hours of chatting, they became closer and eventually formed a polyamorous relationship which has remained strong even now.
Admitting he "doesn't believe in monogamy as a way of life," Rodrigo said he was upfront with his wife from the beginning but she asked "to first live and enjoy our own love" and to hold off on exploring so that "we can allow some time for our relationship to flourish and see where things go."
He said: “When we reached the fourth year of our marriage, when the routines of every relationship gets boring, she wanted to talk about that pause we put.
“Then I started to talk and together we read about polyamorous love, even about swinger relationships but this wasn’t for us as we wanted more, and we need emotional connections.
Rodrigo said that when he and his wife first met Lucy, the waitress at the bar, they "had a little talk" before deciding they wanted to make a move.
He said: “We started showing her flirtatious signs by taking her hands, giving her hugs - Lucy was shocked, we noticed she looked confused with the flirtations and at same time she noticed that I was very close to Melin."
While their relationship with Lucy didn't blossom as quickly as Rodrigo and Melin's once did, the pair became regular visitors of that bar which eventually led to Lucy being more open to Rodrigo's flirtatious ways, and even reciprocating such behaviours.
Rodrigo said: “At that time, there was a very good vibe between the three of us, so I move on to suggest we one day maybe go out as friends not just as waitress and bar clients, and Lucy said, ‘Yes! Add me on WhatsApp then figure out what to do and where to go.’
“We spent some great times together; walking, eating, playing, laughing, I asked not to drink alcohol that day, because if something came from it, even a smile I wanted to live it raw without anything in our bodies other than joy.”
Since then, Rodrigo admits that the addition of Lucy has positively improved his marriage with Melin and they now all plan to get married despite society being against their relationship.
Melin and Lucy are both straight, and do not have a sexual relationship but the throuple are completely open to having children in the future.
Rodrigo confirmed: “Between the three of us we don't have children, but we haven't ruled it out, we are travellers and we want to get to know at least fifty countries together before thinking about having children.
“As a triad our plan is to become closer every day, not only in terms of distance but in our hearts and our feelings,” Rodrigo said.
“Our relationship is like any other, a relationship where we support each other, we understand and love each other, with the simple difference that my wife approves and applauds it, likewise there is love and understanding between them as well as a lot of respect.
He said that while their families have always offered varied opinions about their relationship, "respect and acceptance have always prevailed" and remind anyone who disapproves that "ours is different but just as important as any love."
Rodrigo also said that they want to make a short film about their love that "expresses the realities of polylove"
He said: "we note that the stereotype that is handled in the cinema about polyamory differs a lot from reality, and that is why we would like to make a short film that goes deeper into the human aspect of life shared to three hearts.
“For us, the true commitment of our relationship lies in our hearts and in our sense of unity, but never on paper. The three of us are the same unit now, and we want to celebrate it socially with marriage.
“This type of relationship is not like an eternal threesome; beyond the bed is the complexity of the human being with his feelings and his thoughts, we do not like to be stereotyped as a trio of promiscuous beings.”
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