I’m a city high-flier & had FIVE affairs in just a few months – I don’t regret a single thing

PAUL*, 42, from Winchester, Hampshire, is married but has had FIVE affairs in the past year.

He says: "I made the mistake of marrying my childhood sweetheart, the first girl I ever slept with."

"We have been dating since we were 15 and stayed together while studying at university.

"After uni, my wife started working in a corporate role in London while I worked in the City. We bought a flat together in south London and got married in our late 20s because we both wanted children.

"Five years ago, we decided to move out of London and bought a big house in the countryside.

"It is beautiful, but the commute to the City is almost two hours - too far to do every day. For that reason, I bought a small flat in London City and tend to stay there around three times a week.

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"I have carried on the same work routine because my City firm has been busy and it suits me to work out of the office rather than at home.

"It was after buying the flat that the affairs started. I am a member of a private members' club and used use the gym after work and swim in the pool.

"I met a woman one night and we began a discreet affair because she was married too and neither of us wanted to split up our marriages.

"We would work out, go for a swim and then head to my flat around the corner for sex. It was exciting and she was only the second woman I had ever had sex with.

"The affair fizzled out because my lover felt guilty about cheating on her husband, but I knew I could not go back to monogamy and needed to meet someone new.

"That is how I discovered, the leading affairs site. A friend of mine has been using the site for years and has had several affairs.

"I met a PT instructor who has recently split with her husband. She had been using the site while her marriage disintegrated and just carried on after the divorce.