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I sleep with married men & don’t feel guilty… unlike Kyle Walker’s mistress Lauryn Goodman I’d never tell the wife

Serial mistress Lucinda says Lauryn Goodman broke the golden rule of affairs

WHEN a man cheats he only has himself to blame if he gets found out – but is there an unwritten code as the “other woman”?

Former mistress Lucinda Hart believes that the most sacred rule is to never tell the wife — which she says Lauryn Goodman broke when she decided to tell England footballer Kyle Walker’s other half about their affair.

When a man cheats he only has himself to blame if he gets found out
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When a man cheats he only has himself to blame if he gets found outCredit: Getty
Serial mistress Lucinda Hart says there’s an unwritten code as the ‘other woman’ - and the most sacred rule is never tell the wife
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Serial mistress Lucinda Hart says there’s an unwritten code as the ‘other woman’ - and the most sacred rule is never tell the wifeCredit: Adj Brown
Lauryn Goodman told Kyle Walker’s wife Annie that he had fathered a second child with her
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Lauryn Goodman told Kyle Walker’s wife Annie that he had fathered a second child with herCredit: Getty

Lucinda, 47, has had two significant affairs, and while she would never feel guilty about having sex with another woman’s man, she would feel bad about outing the cheating bloke.

She said: “It’s not the affair that makes Lauryn wrong, but the outing of Kyle Walker.

“If you’re with a bloke who’s in a relationship he’s risking a lot for you. He’s putting his life, family, security and finances on the line.

“Why would anyone want to drop him in it? If you go into those situations, you have to do it with your eyes open.

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“People have always had affairs. Falling into the stereotype of screaming down the blower at a man’s wife is so undignified. What purpose does it serve?”

Lauryn, 33, revealed last week how she told Manchester City star Kyle’s wife Annie about his double life after he refused to come clean.

She felt the affair had to be exposed after Kyle fathered a second child, now six months old, with Lauryn.

He also has three children with Annie, who is now pregnant with their fourth.

Lauryn told The Sun: “I didn’t want to cause any more heartache for Annie or be a bitch but I had to tell her because Kyle was too weak to do it.”

But Lucinda — mum to two girls aged ten and seven by a sperm donor — has happily slept with men whose wives have been pregnant, and says Lauryn was wrong to tell Annie, Kyle’s long-term partner and wife of two years.

Really tactile

On sleeping with married men, she said: “I don’t feel guilty about it, even having sex with a woman’s man when she was pregnant.

“But I judge Lauryn for her claim she was ready to finish Kyle’s marriage to Annie.

“That’s desperate and not going to win him. I don’t know why it is Lauryn vowed to tell her. It is not going to get you anywhere. If he wants you, he’ll leave.”

Lucinda’s first affair was with a married father of four and it started when she was 27 and a mature student.

She said: “We’d chat about literature, language and the arts.

“Initially it was entirely above board but one day he visited and while sat on the sofa I said to him, ‘Are you going to f*** me?’ I knew he liked me as he was really tactile, always coming around and hinting at it. And so began our year-long affair.

“During that period we only went out in public together once. It was only to lunch in a cafe, nothing exciting. It felt strange to be out in the world together.

“It gradually became all about sex, with him visiting once a week, having tea and chocolate cake, popping into bed and him leaving.

“The sex was good fun, but I was bored. He was a serial cheat who would talk fondly about his previous affair partners.

“He managed so long as he was never careless and made sure to separate me and his other lovers from his wife and family so that he could maintain both.

“I bumped into him once, ages afterwards, and he was still doing it, although he said they weren’t a patch on me — a made-up line, I expect. I never asked him.”

Lucinda, from Mullion, Cornwall, openly admits she still has no remorse about the fling.

She said: “He only mentioned his wife twice. She was like a fictional character and I never met her.

“We stayed at my place only, it was so insular — almost like a play, and so compartmentalised.

“People are always sorry for the wife, but in all honesty I didn’t really care about her.

“I didn’t know her, only her name and job. How could I feel bad about someone I’ve never met?

“I can’t pinpoint why I don’t feel guilty about the affairs.

“They were years ago, but I guess I just don’t think the men were happy.

“If they were happy they wouldn’t haven’t done it. Maybe we aren’t designed to be with one person for life.

“You can’t choose who you fall in love or lust with — even if they have children.

“Once, knowing the family was on holiday, I went to look at their home, purely out of curiosity. But I just thought, ‘Oh’.

“Guilt, in this situation, is a redundant emotion. And you have to think, ‘If he’s having affairs, why?’ There’s clearly something wrong with their relationship. It’s not just the cheater’s fault.”

Lucinda ended the first affair after 12 months, when she met an unattached man who she wanted to be in a normal relationship with.

She said: “That first affair wasn’t love, although I liked him, and it wasn’t gold-digging, although he was wealthy.

“We just connected intellectually. And I enjoyed the sex.”

Several years later — single again and by then in her thirties — Lucinda met another married man.

Unlike her first affair, she had strong feelings for him, but this time he not only had two children but a pregnant wife.

They hit it off as soon as they met outside a bar.

After he initially turned down Lucinda’s request for a date, he contacted her on Facebook, saying: “We can have sex but I can’t leave the kids.”

A few days later, they met up and made love.

Lucinda said: “Out of all the men I’ve been with, he’s the man I think I loved the most.

So undignified

“But still I wasn’t jealous of the partner — I didn’t want her life or to be living with him. But I was irritated by her, as it limited when we could meet up.

“He would drive miles to see me at 6.30am so he didn’t get caught and we would make love. There’s no difference between sex in a relationship and sex as a mistress.

“The only difference is someone is watching the clock. I prefer it, as you’re not sharing a bed with someone, which is irritating.”

But unlike her first affair which was all about sex, Lucinda had genuine feelings for the second man and said: “I really, really fancied him.

“He said his partner had quickly got pregnant and their life was difficult.

“He was stressed all the time. I don’t think he was a prolific cheat, I think he was really fond of me. He said he wished he had met me years ago — right people, wrong time.”

But after several months the relationship ended when his partner found out.

Lucinda said: 'It’s not the affair that makes Lauryn wrong, but the outing of Kyle Walker'
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Lucinda said: 'It’s not the affair that makes Lauryn wrong, but the outing of Kyle Walker'Credit: Getty

Lucinda recalled: “A few days later he turned up and ended it on the spot. I was upset and cried, although I would never have begged to make him stay — that’s so undignified. I know people won’t like it that I was with him, knowing he had two small children and a pregnant partner, but I really fancied him.

“The pull was too much. Maybe I just compartmentalise easily. I wasn’t expecting him to leave anybody.”

Lauryn Goodman has spoken about how Kyle led a double life, enjoying good times with her and their two children when things weren’t going well with Annie, and vice versa.

But Lucinda says despite her feelings for her second married man, she would never have outed him — even if she’d got pregnant.

She said: “Even though I fancied him it wouldn’t get me what I want. I hate confrontation and he would hate me.

“That’s why I think Lauryn made a mistake — but it’s a different situation with children involved. Even so, it makes you so horrible. Even if I fell pregnant and there were children involved — although that would be unlikely as I made damn sure I used contraception — I’d have sloped off quietly with my baby.

“You have to cut your cloth a bit. You have to end things.”

Lucinda, who is currently single, continued: “I’ve got children with a sperm donor, so they won’t know about him until they’re 18. That was deliberate. I don’t want a man.

“I’m not saying it’s wrong to have a baby in a happy, stable relationship, but so many relationships fail.”

Her longest relationship was eight years but they never lived together or met regularly.

She said: “I would hate the monotony of a long-term relationship. I don’t get lonely, I like my own company. I paint, I write, I yarn. I don’t like people very much. I don’t need people.

“But that’s not to say I won’t have an affair with a married man in the future.

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“It suits me perfectly. A life where you can just have sex with a man suits me.

“His wife can get all his bad parts.”

Lauryn, 32, revealed last week how she told Kyle’s wife Annie about his double life after he refused to come clean
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Lauryn, 32, revealed last week how she told Kyle’s wife Annie about his double life after he refused to come cleanCredit: Getty
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