I’m engaged to a married man who has FOUR secret kids but I’ve cottoned onto his lies just now – he’s shattered my heart
A WOMAN'S heart was shattered into a million pieces after she found out she was engaged to a married man.
Jasmine Warner tells the captivating story of how she found out the shocking news through a series of unbelievable story times.
As their relationship grew, more and more red flags and details started to come to light that slowly revealed a dark secret that he was hiding.
On the tragic love story, Jasmine said: “How did I not know my partner was engaged to someone else?”
Originally from Phoenix, Arizona, USA, Jasmine reveals how she found out she was engaged to a married man.
Starting from when she was 22, the future fiancé approached Jasmine when she was at work which is when they exchanged numbers and started their romance.
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However, as time went on the shocking revelation came to light when she found out the worst possible news.
After finding out the new man in her life had a son, she wanted to make sure the son’s mother was ok with her meeting him before things progressed.
How did I not know my partner was engaged to someone else?
Jasmine Warner
Seeing texts, supposedly from the mother, approving them meeting, they began bonding and Jasmine eventually saw the child once a week.
The relationship between Jasmine and her new partner continued to blossom.
Overtime the mysterious man continued to let key details slip as he revealed he had a daughter despite maintaining he had three sons.
The red flags continued to be put on show and her suspicions were confirmed when the wife of her fiancé saw a social media post and decided to reach out.
Originally not believing her, the wife proved her claimed and rocked Jasmine’s world.
A gripping series that was posted on her TikTok page which has amassed thousands of views where many shocked users took to the comments.
"You should also look at how they place their phone down when not in use. If they face the phone with the screen facing down, then they could be hiding something."
They start telling you less about their day
When partners cheat they can start to avoid you, this could be down to them feeling guilty or because it makes it easier for them to lie to you.
"If you feel like your partner has suddenly begun to avoid you and they don't want to do things with you any more or they stop telling you about their day then this is another red flag."
"Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be tough, remembering all of your lies is impossible and it's an easy way to get caught out," says Aaron.
Their libido changes
Your partner's libido can change for a range of reasons so it may not be a sure sign of cheating but it can be a red flag according to Aaron.
Aaron says "Cheaters often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but on occasions, they may also have more sex at home, this is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You may also find that your partner will start to introduce new things into your sex life that weren't there before."
They become negative towards you
Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and to them, it will feel good, this can cause tension and anxiety within themselves which they will need to justify.
"To get rid of the tension they feel inside they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and they will become critical of you out of nowhere. Maybe you haven't walked the dog that day, put the dishes away or read a book to your children before bedtime. A small problem like this can now feel like a big deal and if you experience this your partner could be cheating," warns Aaron.
“I then decided I want to start a YouTube channel and he was bold enough to be in the YouTube videos!
“He slips up and starts talking about his daughter.
“I’m like ‘You have a daughter’?
“His wife saw something on social media and decided to reach out.