My cheating husband has no idea I’m plotting revenge – I honeytrapped his DAD on Snapchat and that’s just the start
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A WOMAN has revealed that her cheating husband asked for her back, but has no idea she is planning the ultimate revenge.
The fuming woman confessed that after finding out her partner was unfaithful, she decided to go to extreme lengths to get her just deserts.
Not only is she saving money to leave him eventually, but she is also losing weight to ensure she has the perfect revenge body.
If that wasn’t enough, she’s even honeytrapped – whereby someone is tricked through a romantic or sexual relationship so that their behaviour can be publicly exposed – her husband’s father via a fake social media profile.
Keen to open up on her ‘sweet’ revenge, the woman went online to reveal all, leaving many open-mouthed.
Posting on Reddit on the thread, the anonymous woman titled her post ‘Revenge on my cheating husband’.
She then explained: “I found out my husband cheated on me in November. I have known this man since I was five, been best friends for forever and now married for five years.
“He decided he wanted a divorce, two months ago he basically came crawling back and asking for our marriage back. I said okay.”
But although she agreed to get back together with her husband, she has calculated a variety of ways to get back at him as a punishment for his infidelity.
She added: “Little does he know I’m saving $500 [£387] on his dime every month to leave him eventually.
“Little does he know I’m losing weight and getting my body in the best shape of its life for my future person who will NEVER take me for granted.”
If that wasn’t bad enough, she also shared: “Little does he know I made a fake profile on Snapchat and added his father to it.
“His father is now cheating on his mother with the fake profile aka me, which I will be sending all the screenshots to his mother after I leave.
“Normally I wouldn’t bring anyone else into this but his mother decided I was in the wrong for her son cheating on me. Won’t it be ironic?”
I will never ever let anybody play me for a fool again, and I certainly won’t let someone cheat on me and leave me only to try to pick me as a second option later
Reddit poster
Keen to ensure her husband won’t play her for a ‘fool again’, she admitted: “Little does he know I will talk to my rental manager and sign a contract to leave that apartment which is in my name in December, the same week he will be gone on a trip.
“Won’t it be funny when he comes back to new locks, his wife missing, his stuff in the dumpster, and nowhere to live?
Four red flags your partner is cheating
Private Investigator Aaron Bond from BondRees revealed four warning signs your partner might be cheating.
They start to take their phone everywhere with them
In close relationships, it’s normal to know each other’s passwords and use each other’s phones, if their phone habits change then they may be hiding something.
says: “If your partner starts changing their passwords, starts taking their phone everywhere with them, even around the house or they become defensive when you ask to use their phone it could be a sign of them not being faithful.”
“You should also look at how they place their phone down when not in use. If they face the phone with the screen facing down, then they could be hiding something.”
They start telling you less about their day
When partners cheat they can start to avoid you, this could be down to them feeling guilty or because it makes it easier for them to lie to you.
“If you feel like your partner has suddenly begun to avoid you and they don’t want to do things with you any more or they stop telling you about their day then this is another red flag.”
“Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be tough, remembering all of your lies is impossible and it’s an easy way to get caught out,” says Aaron.
Their libido changes
Your partner’s libido can change for a range of reasons so it may not be a sure sign of cheating but it can be a red flag according to Aaron.
Aaron says: “Cheaters often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but on occasions, they may also have more sex at home, this is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You may also find that your partner will start to introduce new things into your sex life that weren’t there before.”
They become negative towards you
Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and to them, it will feel good, this can cause tension and anxiety within themselves which they will need to justify.
“To get rid of the tension they feel inside they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and they will become critical of you out of nowhere. Maybe you haven’t walked the dog that day, put the dishes away or read a book to your children before bedtime. A small problem like this can now feel like a big deal and if you experience this your partner could be cheating,” warns Aaron.
“Oh and did I mention his dream car is in my name because I had better credit, but don’t worry I’ve already started the process of selling it and it will be towed to California that same week he’s on vacation.
“I will never ever let anybody play me for a fool again, and I certainly won’t let someone cheat on me and leave me only to try to pick me as a second option later. Who said revenge isn’t sweet?”
Reddit users react
Reddit users were left gobsmacked by the woman’s confession and flocked to the comments to share their thoughts on the unique situation.
But social media users were left totally divided by the woman’s actions.
Whilst many praised her and were keen to hear more about how the situation evolves, others weren’t so supportive.
You go girl! I am so proud of you!
Reddit user
One person said: “Good on you, never let anyone take you for granted.”
Another added: “Love it! Please send us updates in December.”
Why get your in-laws involved?
Reddit user
A third commented: “OMG! Popcorn is out.. beer is cold.. Follow Button is checked.. I’m sitting on the edge of my seat waiting for the next instalment!!”
Meanwhile, someone else penned: “You go girl! I am so proud of you!”
But at the same time, one person wrote: “Unless he had a hand in the cheating or covered it up in some way, leave the old man out of it. That’s just evil. The rest of it, run with it and good hunting.”
A second asked: “Why get your in-laws involved?”
Whilst another simply slammed: “Dayumn savage.”