I’m a married banker mum & pay another man for ‘erotic massages’ – my hubby doesn’t mind as long as he gets more sex
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WHEN we’re young it seems like we can have sex whenever we want – but as we get older and more responsibilities come up, it gets harder and harder to fit sex in or even want it.
And that’s exactly what one woman was feeling until she went for an erotic massage with another man.
Chloe* a 40-year-old mum who works as a commodities broker on Wall Street revealed an ‘erotic massage’ fixed her problems.
The stressed out mum of two reached out to a Yoni Master named Rick after her husband found him online.
A Yoni massage is a type of Tantric full-body massage that primarily focuses on the labia, clitoris, G-spot, uterus, the breasts, the anus and other erogenous zones.
Fed up with their stagnant sex life, her husband was coming up with all sorts of ideas to get her back into the bedroom and enjoy some intimate time with him.
Rick, who has hundreds of fans online, is often spoken about on the Reddit forum TantricMassage.
Chloe revealed that the massage did just the trick to get her libido back and her husband was thrilled with it.
“‘I was soaking wet and my heart was racing,” Chloe told .
She revealed that at the time, she was dealing with a lot of anxiety as the main breadwinner for her family but worried about her job security.
Meanwhile, she felt like she and her husband were drifting apart.
Like many marriages, after a long day, the pair would be too tired to have sex.
They’d discussed ways to add a spark back into their marriage like having a threesome or swinging,
However they decided against it as they were concerned opening up their relationship would impact their feelings for each other.
That’s when her partner found Rick, and told her as long as she didn’t run off with him, he was happy for her to have orgasms with another man, as long as they had more sex.
Chloe met Rick at a hotel in the middle of the week, nervous about what was to come.
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Oats – If you want to sow your oats, first you must eat them. Oats are rich in amino acid L-arginine which increases blood flow to the genital areas of both men and women and also boosts testosterone levels which can increase female libido and help men suffering from erectile dysfunction.
Shiraz – Good sex can be had after a glass or two of red, scientists will have you know. The moderate tipple is linked to higher sexual desire and better overall sexual function, a 2009 study revealed.
Takeaways – Research found couples who ate fish twice a week or more had sex 22 per cent more often. To spice things up with a curry, look out for dishes containing methi leaves, found to increase arousal in both sexes by as much as 26 per cent.
But she was instantly put at ease when he opened the door and the pair began chatting.
After, they headed to the massage table, where she said ‘Rick’s hands on her body felt electric.’
The stressed mum said she felt close to orgasm before he had even touched her vulva.
When he began the yoni massage, she orgasmed at least four times.
“I was not prepared for how my session with Rick impacted my libido,” she says.
And it seemed to have paid off, since then Chloe has been having sex with her husband every night and twice a day on weekends.
“Not only is my libido back, but I feel more connected with my body, my husband, and my kids,” she says. “I’m performing better at work and have so much more energy.”
* names have been changed.
