I found out my boyfriend was cheating & got revenge by snogging his MISTRESS
Read on for the red flags your partner is cheating
A BACHELOR contestant on the hit reality TV show has confessed how she got revenge on her cheating lover.
Maria Georgas, from Canada, appeared as a bachelorette on series 28, hoping to make the Bachelor fall in love with her.
But it wasn’t to be and now she recalls her dating life with podcast Alex Cooper on the award-winning show
Maria revealed that one of her past boyfriends cheated on her, and she went to extreme lengths to prove it and get revenge.
She said she was like an FBI agent after he began acting distant and decided to figure out what was going on.,
One day while staying at his apartment, she decided to check out the CCTV footage as she had a feeling he was cheating on her.
She recalled: “So I go to the front desk. I’m like, ‘Oh my god. I left for my trip. But as I was waiting for my Uber, I left my purse on the couch.'”
Outside of her partner’s door in the apartment was a lounge area so she got the security guard to pull up footage from there.
She then got him to search the times her boyfriend was ‘acting off’ to see if anything suspicious had taken place.
And Maria was right, at 3:30am she saw a woman walk up to his door and be let in, and it wasn’t her.
Maria was with her friend at the time she was looking at the security footage, she gasped when she saw the other woman.
The security guard soon realised Maria wasn’t looking for a purse and was catching her boyfriend out, so he turned the camera and says he couldn’t do this.
But Maria had all the evidence she needed and decided to keep it to herself until the right moment came along.
A few days later, her partner threw a party with friends and family when she noticed the same girl from the CCTV clips was there.
“I see him go over to her, hug her, kiss her. So I go, perfect. That’s my in. So he comes back. I’m like, ‘who’s that girl that you kiss on the cheek? Who’s that?’ He’s like ‘oh, she’s just a friend,'” she explained.
But her gut was telling her otherwise, and she questioned why she turned up at his house in the morning.
Four red flags your partner is cheating
Private Investigator Aaron Bond from BondRees revealed four warning signs your partner might be cheating.
They start to take their phone everywhere with them
In close relationships, it’s normal to know each other’s passwords and use each other’s phones, if their phone habits change then they may be hiding something.
says: “If your partner starts changing their passwords, starts taking their phone everywhere with them, even around the house or they become defensive when you ask to use their phone it could be a sign of them not being faithful.”
“You should also look at how they place their phone down when not in use. If they face the phone with the screen facing down, then they could be hiding something.”
They start telling you less about their day
When partners cheat they can start to avoid you, this could be down to them feeling guilty or because it makes it easier for them to lie to you.
“If you feel like your partner has suddenly begun to avoid you and they don’t want to do things with you any more or they stop telling you about their day then this is another red flag.”
“Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be tough, remembering all of your lies is impossible and it’s an easy way to get caught out,” says Aaron.
Their libido changes
Your partner’s libido can change for a range of reasons so it may not be a sure sign of cheating but it can be a red flag according to Aaron.
Aaron says: “Cheaters often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but on occasions, they may also have more sex at home, this is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You may also find that your partner will start to introduce new things into your sex life that weren’t there before.”
They become negative towards you
Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and to them, it will feel good, this can cause tension and anxiety within themselves which they will need to justify.
“To get rid of the tension they feel inside they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and they will become critical of you out of nowhere. Maybe you haven’t walked the dog that day, put the dishes away or read a book to your children before bedtime. A small problem like this can now feel like a big deal and if you experience this your partner could be cheating,” warns Aaron.
Despite the evidence, he insisted nothing happened between them.
A few weeks later, her friend was out drinking and she asked Maria to come along, sending her a picture that the mistress was there as well.
After a night out she realised she actually got on really well with the mistress and they began a close friendship.
On another night out the pair had a bit too much to drink and she decided to kiss her as she ‘wanted to know what he was dealing with.’
Maria had broken up with her boyfriend, but she and the mistress had become best friends when one night she told MAria she had to confess to something.
She said: “She’s like ‘Maria, I love you, you’re such a good person. I feel like I need to be honest about something.’
“I go, let me stop you right there. I knew this entire time.”
The clip was shared on YouTube and people were left stunned by MAria’s confession.
One person wrote: “Maria is chaotic in the best possible way and I’m absolutely obsessed.”
Another commented: “Maria is everything.”
“Love this girl omg she’s so funny and real,” penned a third.
Fabulous will pay for your exclusive stories. Just email: fabulousdigital@the-sun.co.uk and pop EXCLUSIVE in the subject line.