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I work in a legal brothel – the exact time of day men are most likely to cheat on their wives
She also says that some men "just want to be heard"
A WOMAN who works in a legal brothel has revealed the surprising times of day when men are most likely to cheat on their wives.
Madame Catherine De Noire, a PhD student and owner of a popular brothel, shared her insights on Instagram, where she has 340,000 followers.
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According to Catherine, the busiest times for married men to visit are between 3 p.m. and 5 p.m, as they try to squeeze in a session before heading home.
Lunchtimes, between 12 p.m. and 1 p.m., are also popular with office workers sneaking away during their break.
The brothel owner also revealed why so many married men cheat on their wives frequently at her saucy establishment.
She said: “The absence of physical intimacy may be missing from their relationship.
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“Due to alienation, lack of time, or medical reasons, they choose to pay for this experience instead of finding a mistress.”
Catherine also explained that some of the men suffer from a lack of emotional intimacy as some men go to the brothels “just to talk and feel heard.”
The madame also revealed that married men cheat due to “boredom” or trying to seek some "excitement" in their life - even if their marriage or relationship is going well.
She continued: “It's important to note that this isn't about assigning blame to either partner or suggesting it's the man's fault.
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“Sometimes, life unfolds in ways that lead to these choices.”
Catherine also added that married men are “one of the most prevalent groups” when it comes to visiting her brothel.
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The madame has gained a lot of attention, with many people rushing to the comments section of her videos to share their thoughts.
One wrote: “I like what you do, babe. But what we're not gonna do is make excuses for men's poor choices.
"I don't care if it makes you money. Do better.”
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A second added: “Married men are the most prevalent because we live in a patriarchal world where women's needs come last.”
Whilst a third said: “There's a difference between explaining why most clients are married men, and supporting their choices simply because it makes you money.”
Four red flags your partner is cheating
Private Investigator Aaron Bond from BondRees revealed four warning signs your partner might be cheating.
They start to take their phone everywhere with them
In close relationships, it's normal to know each other's passwords and use each other's phones, if their phone habits change then they may be hiding something.
says: "If your partner starts changing their passwords, starts taking their phone everywhere with them, even around the house or they become defensive when you ask to use their phone it could be a sign of them not being faithful."
"You should also look at how they place their phone down when not in use. If they face the phone with the screen facing down, then they could be hiding something."
They start telling you less about their day
When partners cheat they can start to avoid you, this could be down to them feeling guilty or because it makes it easier for them to lie to you.
"If you feel like your partner has suddenly begun to avoid you and they don't want to do things with you any more or they stop telling you about their day then this is another red flag."
"Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be tough, remembering all of your lies is impossible and it's an easy way to get caught out," says Aaron.
Their libido changes
Your partner's libido can change for a range of reasons so it may not be a sure sign of cheating but it can be a red flag according to Aaron.
Aaron says: "Cheaters often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but on occasions, they may also have more sex at home, this is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You may also find that your partner will start to introduce new things into your sex life that weren't there before."
They become negative towards you
Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and to them, it will feel good, this can cause tension and anxiety within themselves which they will need to justify.
"To get rid of the tension they feel inside they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and they will become critical of you out of nowhere. Maybe you haven't walked the dog that day, put the dishes away or read a book to your children before bedtime. A small problem like this can now feel like a big deal and if you experience this your partner could be cheating," warns Aaron.
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