The worst things you can do during sex – from saying ‘I love you’ for the first time to insulting someone’s genitals
It seems that many of us agree on a variety of unspoken rules when it comes to getting jiggy
PEOPLE have taken to the web to reveal the worst things you can do during sex.
Sex is different for everyone, but it seems that many of us agree on a variety of unspoken rules when it comes to getting jiggy.
A recent asked the online community: “What is a big no-no during intercourse?” - and the post was hit with an influx of replies in a matter of hours.
From saying “I love you” for the first time to insulting someone’s genitals, here are eight of the biggest bonking no-nos.
Lying about contraception
One user said that fibbing about being on the pill was one of the biggest bedroom faux pas.
Don’t insult “down below”
Another user reasoned: “Don’t insult anyone’s genitals during sex. Women don’t need a lecture on their pubic hair situation.”
Talking
Needless chat was also a no go, someone else said: “Small talk. Please don't ask me what the weather is like right now.”
Not discussing before "doing"
Someone else reasoned that surprise kinks were never good, they wrote: “Trying kinky things without first discussing them with your partner.”
Being inconsiderate
Another added: “Getting off without ever making sure that your lover also got off.”
No three little words
One user reckoned that there is a time and a place for declaring your love.
They wrote: “Saying ‘I love you’ for the first time [during sex].”
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No warm-up
Skipping foreplay was also a big red flag. One user added: “It takes time to get things going and foreplay is half the fun.”
Not taking control
Another Reddit user wasn’t a fan of “passive” partners, they said: “Be passive or seem needy. Please don't ask ‘what do you want me to do’ or ’is that okay?’ Just do it.
“Grab something. Slap something. I don't care. Just do it with confidence and authority and it will take me to heaven.”
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