Woman who used sugar daddy to pay off student debt says it’s a ‘fairytale’ to not expect to swap sex for cash
A SELF-professed ‘sugar baby’ has revealed how she took up with a ‘sugar daddy’ after finding herself ‘poor and desperate’.
An anonymous user on Reddit known only by the username lwh5380384 says she advertised for a richer older guy to help pay off her student loan and keep her in education.
The woman reveals she thought the lifestyle would be ‘easy’ and about ‘manipulating men and taking their money’.
Naively, she thought the lifestyle wasn’t about the exchange of sex when she first met and started talking to potential sugar daddies online.
"Whatever people call this relationship between a sugar daddy and sugar baby, it’s pretty much just a kind of mutually beneficial relationship," she explained.
She explains how on the first date the ‘terms’ were negotiated and how much money a sugar baby could expect – known as their ‘allowance’ and in exchange for what.
In this instance, the man did want sex and in exchange her paid off half her university loan, although she admits the man looked ‘far older and totally different’ to how she imagined.
The woman called it a ‘fairytale’ to believe you could have a Sugar Daddy and not be expected to sleep with them.
“My first sugar daddy is an old man who is literally at the age of my grandpa, actually a 63 [year] old retired engineer in LA. Lets call him Mr. G.
“Mr. G looks like a gentleman from his words online and we have some nice chats there.
“He told me that he lost his wife a few years ago, and he had a daughter and a son but they both lived abroad, and he was just lonely and needed some one to keep company with,” she wrote.
She went on to reveal that her sugar daddy had three sugar babies, all of which he expected sex from.
“I realise that those perfect sugar stories are just fairy tales. You can’t ask a man to pay for your college just with some nice dinners and romantic dates!”
“He is the one who helped me take the first step into the sugar bowl, taught me the basic rules of sugar relationship, and let me see the possibilities of myself,”she typed.
The woman ended by saying that she ‘didn’t get a Ferarri or a Louis Vuitton bag’ like people might imagine, but that she ‘had a nice time’ and got the money she wanted and needed.
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