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WHILE faking an orgasm may be seen as a huge no-no (despite the ‘yes, yes!’) in the bedroom, it turns out that a little bit of acting can actually improve your overall satisfaction.

One sexpert reckons that putting on a little performance doesn’t just nurse your partner’s ego – it can help YOU achieve an orgasm. Here's what we know.

 Meg Ryan proves in the iconic When Harry Met Sally scene that women can put on a realistic show
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Meg Ryan proves in the iconic When Harry Met Sally scene that women can put on a realistic showCredit: Castle Rock Entertainment

Should you ever fake an orgasm?

Many women have admitted to faking an orgasm at least once in their life – whether it be with a one-night stand or in a long-term relationship.

According to a recent study by the, it’s either to protect the man’s feelings, because they feel insecure, to make it end quicker, or to bring on an actual orgasm.

The final reason may seem baffling, but according to expect Tracey Cox, the very act of faking it can actually help the path to a real one.

In scientific terms, the technique is called “elevated arousal”, which Tracey explains is: "Faking an orgasm to make yourself feel more turned on, based on the theory that if you act out the thing you want to happen, sometimes it will."

 Nursing your partner's ego may be a reason to fake an orgasm, but by making them more aroused, it can actually help you achieve one
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Nursing your partner's ego may be a reason to fake an orgasm, but by making them more aroused, it can actually help you achieve oneCredit: Getty - Contributor

But how does putting on a show of fast, heavy breathing and theatrical noises work?

According to Tracey, if a woman pretends to orgasm, then their partner in turn becomes more excited, which then leads the woman to become more excited – thus helping the eventual path to orgasm.

However, Tracey does warn that it’s best not to get into a habit of faking enjoyment at the beginning of a relationship, because then your partner won’t learn what it takes to tip you over the edge.

So make sure your relationship has plenty of communication, and feedback to nudge your partner in the right direction, so that you hopefully won’t find the need to fake it.

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