Mum-to-be left raging after husband announces pregnancy news before her first scan… so what do YOU think?

A MUM-TO-BE has started a debate online after her husband announced her pregnancy news after agreeing not to.

The woman revealed that her other-half had agreed that he wouldn't tell anyone about the pregnancy until after the first scan - but became loose-lipped on a night out.

Taking to parenting forum , the woman wrote: "I am 11 wks pregnant and have my first scan next week.

"DH and I agreed not to tell anyone before the scan and I have been really stressing about anyone finding out!

"Last night DH went out with a friend and told him that I am pregnant!

"AIBU [am I being unreasonable] to think I can't trust someone if they can't trust themself?

"I feel completely undermined! I can't see what consequences DH will suffer or what I can do! He's just going to get away with disrespecting my wishes!"

Needless to say, many were quick to wade into the debate - and many thought that the woman was "making too much of it".

One such user said: "OP [original poster] just try to move on. He made a mistake but don't let it overshadow your happy news. And don't worry too much.

"My friend had been trying to conceive with her DH for 5 years and when she finally got a positive test, who did she ring?

"ME!"

Another added: "Pick your battles, this really isn't one."

Someone else said: "He just got excited and told someone! I think you’re making too much of it."

Others agreed that it was annoying, but that the woman should try to get over it.

One person said: "It's a bit annoying, but I think the most likely explanation is that he is so excited that he couldn't keep it to himself, which would actually be rather adorable.

"It sounds like you're nervous about there being problems at the scan. The chances are everything will be fine and I wish you well with everything.

"I think it's okay to remind your husband to you want him to stick to what you've agreed, but please don't fall out with him over one slip up."

What do you think?

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