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Here’s how many dates you should go on before becoming exclusive with someone… and dinner dates are more likely to lead to love

A new study says we need to seriously squeeze in those dates before committing to a relationship...

WE'VE all been there: things are going really well between you and the person you've just started dating and you're wondering when you should have "the chat".

You know, the one where you define your relationship and decide whether to become exclusive with each other.

 A new study has found that the average Brit goes on nine dates before committing to their new partner
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A new study has found that the average Brit goes on nine dates before committing to their new partnerCredit: Getty - Contributor

Well according to a new study, the average Brit needs to go on NINE successful dates with a new beau before deciding if they're ready to settle down.

That's a lot of post-work drinks and picnics in the park... just saying.

In a poll of 2,000 people, the study also found that more than one in 10 daters think it takes at least a month for love to truly blossom.

The uncertain singletons favour cinema trips and drinking dates while they're making their minds up.

 Forgot awkwardly brushing hands, Brits love a cinema date in the lead up to "the chat"
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Forgot awkwardly brushing hands, Brits love a cinema date in the lead up to "the chat"Credit: Getty - Contributor
The people polled also said that intimate dinner dates where also most likely to lead to a romantic commitment at the end.
Considering most of these occasions will last well over an hour, cautious daters are spending a minimum of 20 hours on dates before committing to one another.
Talk about clocking in the time.

Julia Pitt, who commissioned the study into speed of commitments, said: "Love can be a mysterious thing and finding out how you really feel can take time to uncover."

The study also found that while 25 per cent of people admit to falling in love with their partner on the first date (must have been an amazing restaurant), over 56 per cent instantly fall for their pets the moment they meet them.

Can you really blame them?

 The uncertain singletons found that a dinner date is most likely to lead to romance and commitment
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The uncertain singletons found that a dinner date is most likely to lead to romance and commitmentCredit: Getty - Contributor

What's more, although British singletons are more likely to take it slow when entering into a new relationship, the average homeowner will commit to buying a new house after just four visits to the property.

Weighing on the matter, professional romance consultant Tiffany Wright said this is all down to the "different types of love we can experience" including the "sexual love which we feel for our partners" and how the love we have for our home is "practical".

She added: "Our emotions are a key driving factor when it comes to making big life decisions, whether this is choosing a partner or a new home."

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