I was told ‘you’re too young for cancer’ like Deborah James – now I’m facing an uncertain future
WHEN dad-of-two Matthew Wiltshire noticed 'concerning poos' he put it down to too much red wine and steak.
But airing on the side of caution, the then 48-year-old decided to visit his GP.
That was in April 2015 and since then, the charity founder has had over 50 round of chemotherapy, plus radiotherapy to keep bowel cancer at bay.
Speaking to The Sun, , now 55, who lives with his wife Sophie, 51, in Weybridge, Surrey, is urging Brits to not put off embarrassing conversations about bodily functions.
Bowel cancer screening in the UK is offered to people in their 50s.
Sun writer Deborah James, who is currently receiving palliative care for stage 4 bowel cancer, helped to lower the screening age - which had previously been for people 60 and over.
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Early diagnosis saves lives - but because of the age limit on checks - many people think they are too young for bowel cancer, which is exactly what Matthew experienced when he visited his GP.
“The doctor said not to worry, at 48, I was too young for bowel cancer - I figured I'd just been eating too much steak and drinking too much red wine,” he remembers.
He was referred for a colonoscopy “just to be safe” and a cancerous tumour was found in his colon.
“My whole world turned upside down. I worried about what treatment I'd need and faced the overwhelming fear that I wouldn't be around to look after my family as long as I'd planned,” says Matthew.
He began a “rollercoaster” of treatment that proved successful.
Within three weeks he had surgery to have the tumour removed and says the time he spent in hospital 'was without doubt the worst I'd endured my life'.
"I was fed through a drip in my neck for a week and had to live with a stoma for three months.
"But ultimately, the operation was successful. I was sent home to carry on with my life without radiotherapy or chemotherapy.
He said that when it comes to men looking after their health, they leave things too late and don't talk to each other.
“My biggest message to anyone with any symptom would be to go and get it dealt with.
“People live with it for too long. That is especially true of bowel cancer as you have to talk about poo and it's a taboo subject.
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“People feel too embarrassed and then get diagnosed at a late stage.
“Don't put it off if you are having symptoms - one embarrassing conversation could save your life."
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