Sugar Baby BOY, 26, has sex with divorced 40-something women who lavish him with expensive gifts … and his GIRLFRIEND doesn’t know yet
Ant, from Birmingham, joined SeekingArrangement one year ago and has since dated seven women
MOST twenty-something guys spend their Saturday nights drinking £1 pints in cheap pubs while trying to chat up good-looking girls at the bar.
But for Ant life is very different. He has a bevy of glamorous women on speed dial, all of whom are desperate to wine and dine him in posh restaurants.
The hunky 26-year-old personal trainer from Birmingham lives the high life with the help of the world’s largest online dating website , which matches wealthy benefactors with those looking for "mutual beneficial relationships".
Ant is a male sugar baby – a guy who joins rich, older women for nights out, lavish shopping trips and some X-rated activities.
After moving from his native Italy to the UK last year, he decided to give the world of sugaring a go.
“A female friend showed me the SeekingArrangement website and I just thought it looked interesting,” he told The Sun Online.
“Of course it’s not normal because I go out with older women, but it’s nice because they have experience. I just thought, ‘Why not?’”
Ant created an online profile and within a month he had his first arrangement.
“I wrote that I’m like the wind in the air – I come along for two days, make you feel completely different, and then go away,” he joked.
“I said I’m there to provide new friendships and fresh moments. Sometimes life is boring and I can provide adrenaline, adventure and fun.”
Ant has been active on SeekingArrangement for 12 months and dates women aged 30 to their late 40s.
“The oldest I’ve been with is 47 but her mind was really young,” he said.
“She was fun and she didn’t have a boring personality. In her mind she was still young.”
He’s open-minded and says he would be willing to date a woman over 50 as “age is just a number”.
Ant, who has had seven arrangements in the past year, says most of the women are divorced and have children.
“I remember one woman and her daughter was my age,” he said.
“She showed me a picture. The daughter was pretty nice. I thought, ‘I want to meet your daughter!’”
Ant, who also works as a Butler in the Buff, finds older women a turn on and doesn’t care what anyone else thinks.
“I don’t ask what people think and I don’t care,” he said. “They do probably think these women are my mother.”
The average sugar mummy has an income of over £100,000 and usually has a high-powered job that leaves her little time to meet men.
“They’re business girls. One was a teacher, another a doctor. They have important jobs,” he said.
TALK THE SUGAR BABY LINGO
*SUGAR BABY
A boy who dates a wealthy woman. She gives him financial compensation for his time and attention. It’s basically like a normal relationship where he understands her needs, she understands his.
*SUGAR MUMMY
The term for a woman who provides a younger companion with rewards for their time and attention. A successful woman who has a well-paid job.
*ARRANGEMENT
An agreement between a sugar baby and a sugar mummy in which the expectations of the relationship are outlined.
*SUGAR GRAM
The term used to describe the community of sugar babies on Instagram.
*ALLOWANCE
A regular monetary contribution given by a sugar mummy to a sugar baby.
*PAY PER MEET/PLAY
Compensation a sugar baby receives for a date on a ‘per meet’ basis. Or, compensation offered only when sexual acts are performed.
“Everyone has a different story, a different life. I want to listen to all of them.”
Ant enjoys making the women feel special and says when they are together it’s like they are in a ‘normal’ relationship – including having sex.
“It can happen, yes. If I feel comfortable, yes, I’m quite active. I’ve slept with more than three,” he said.
While keen to have fun and be spoilt by these women, Ant is doesn't want things to get too serious.
“I don’t go out with a woman more than three times,” he said.
“One thing is having experience and fun but I don’t want a relationship. I’m really friendly and I make them feel comfortable.”
To break things off he "tells them directly or just stops answering their calls".
Defending his cold shoulder approach he said: “A lot of girls have done that to me in the past.”
He said a lot of the women want a proper relationship, “especially if they are divorced and they live alone”.
Ant’s sugar mummies shower him with presents in exchange for his time. They have offered to take him to Greece, bought him an iPad Air, taken him on £300 shopping sprees and given him an allowance of £1,000.
Keen to one day expand his personal training company, Ant also gets business advice off the women and they have helped fund some of his marketing projects.
While Ant enjoys his lifestyle, he has decided to keep it a secret from his family.
“My best friend in Birmingham knows. He didn’t say anything special, we are both crazy,” he joked.
“But I wouldn’t be happy if my parents and uncles found out. I don’t know if they would be proud of it.”
One person who definitely doesn’t know is his 25-year-old girlfriend.
“Considering a serious relationship at the moment is hard,” he said. “I need to tell her face-to-face.”
Ant slams claims he’s a gold digger and says it’s all “just fun”. He believes other guys should give it a go. “Do it, why not? It's fun and can help you,” he said.
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