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Honest mummy blogger Tova Leigh shares the reality behind her ‘perfect’ selfie – including granny pants and her ‘unsexy’ mum-tum

AN HONEST mummy blogger has shared the reality behind her “perfect” selfie - including granny pants and her “unsexy” mum-tum.

, a half Israeli, half Irish blogger who lives in the UK, shared a powerful message about body image after posting a “perfect” selfie on Instagram.

 Tova had shared this 'perfect' selfie and received many compliments for the snap
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Tova had shared this 'perfect' selfie and received many compliments for the snapCredit: Tova Leigh - My Thoughts about stuff/Facebook

On May 16, Tova, who is mum to three daughters, posted a photo of herself on Instagram.

After receiving numerous “likes”, she decided to make the shot her profile picture on Facebook.

But, she says that she later felt guilty about the photo - and the filters and editing she used to create it.

The mum-of-three went on to share a follow-up post to reveal the “reality” behind her “perfect” picture.

Alongside a black and white photo taken showing her leaning over, : “Today I am sharing the ‘behind the scenes’ of that image.

 Tova followed up the selfie with this 'behind the scenes' shot, showing the 'reality' of her previous snap
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Tova followed up the selfie with this 'behind the scenes' shot, showing the 'reality' of her previous snapCredit: Tova Leigh - My Thoughts about stuff/Facebook

“How I actually looked when it was taken, without 20 attempts to get it right, without cropping out the bits I don’t like and without adding the ‘make me look pretty’ filter.”

Tova went on to express that she had since read an article about the way social media can make people feel insecure, because of the “perfect” images that they then perceive as reality.

The impassioned mum added: “Well let me tell you something: THIS IS REAL.

“In all my mum-tum, cellulitis, granny pants and absolutely zero thigh gap glory!

“Not the perfect sexy body by some dictated standard, but imperfectly fabulous because it is real and it is mine.”

She concluded: “Social media is full of s***. You are beautiful just the way you are.

“And there is nothing sexier than being real.”

The powerful post has received over 41,000 likes and 7,500 shares since it was posted, with mums from all over the world applauding Tova for her honesty.

One woman commented: “You are such a f****** inspiration Tova!!!

“Blessed be you magical warrior! This momma thanks you from the bottom of my heart.

“You always tell it like it is, and the world needs more blunt honest truth baring women in this world!”

Another wrote: “Halle f****** louja! Finally someone out there that say's it as it is.

“Tova you rock, and I for one like the fact I have no gap in between my thighs, means I am one step closer to being a mermaid.”

It's not the first time Tova has caused a stir online.

She previously got a massive response to her vlog about why she was done with praising her children "for talents they don't have".

Last week, we reported how women of all shapes and sizes are proudly showing off their "visible tummy lines" in a body positive social media trend and the Loose Women Body Stories campaign.

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