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Brit dating expert tells men to avoid ‘overweight and entitled’ UK women… and go for ‘good and beautiful’ Russian and Eastern European girls instead
Richard La Ruina said 'entitled' British women don't take care of their looks
A BRITISH dating expert has delivered a scathing critique of English women – and strongly recommended that blokes date Eastern European girls instead.
Richard La Ruina, 37, from Cambridge has published two bestselling-books on seduction and has been named “one of the country’s top pick-up artists” in the past.
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The dating professional claims British women have become entitled and overweight.
He firmly advises his English male clients to avoid home-grown ladies and go for Eastern European girls – who are more feminine, well-mannered and prettier, in his opinion.
In fact, after realising that British women were “not marriage material”, Richard moved to Moscow, Russia in 2011 with the sole purpose of finding a girl to settle down with.
He since dated around 200 “good and beautiful Russian women” before he met his wife Katia in February 2015 in a bar.
Katia is deliberately unemployed and the couple hope to have children in the next year.
Richard, who married Katia, 26, in December last year in Mauritus, said: “In my professional and personal opinion, I would recommend that my male clients not date British women.
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“If you’re looking for a woman who is beautiful, intelligent and has good manners, then go for an Eastern European girl.
“Obviously my mum is English and not like this – but in general, I think British women are entitled, overweight and less feminine.
“They want a guy who is successful, good-looking and chivalrous even though they don’t have much to offer in return.
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“And they want the man to be a gentleman even though they refuse to fulfil the traditional role of the woman in the household and take care of their looks. English women just think they deserve to be with a man like that.
“I’ve met so many successful, nice British guys who are struggling to find a girlfriend in the UK dating scene – because English women are looking for too much. They’re too confused and they don’t make pleasant wives.
“Meanwhile Eastern European women are gorgeous, ladylike, accomplished and have traditional family values. They are much more straightforward, refined and in control of themselves – you won’t see them swearing, getting drunk in a nightclub or going home with someone on the first date like most British girls.
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“And obviously, looks and beauty play a huge factor too. Tall and thin girls are the norm in Eastern European countries.
“For me though, women in Russia are the whole package. You can go to Russia and easily find a woman who looks like a supermodel, has a Masters degree and can play the violin at the same time."
Richard said he moved to Moscow to find a wife but dated hundreds of beautiful Russian girls until he met Katia.
He confessed: “When I was single, I kept the fact about Eastern European women being better than British women a secret because I was enjoying the company of so many wonderful girls. But now I’m married, I’m happy to spread the message.”
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Richard says that Brexit could be dire for the love lives of British blokes – and believes that English women should change to be more like their Russian counterparts.
Richard explains: “I’m always disappointed when it’s tough for my beautiful Russian female friends to come to England because of visas and so forth. For British guys, it would be a godsend to have more Eastern European girls in their country.
“Of course, I think British women should change. They could learn a lot from Russian girls on how to be an attractive and beautiful – not just in looks but also in behaviour.”
Before becoming one of Britain’s most famed pick-up artists, Richard had been unsuccessful with the opposite sex – and didn’t kiss a woman until he was 21 years old.
But in his mid-twenties, Richard learned about seduction. Soon he had no trouble picking up thousands of women and began teaching others about his pick-up dating techniques.
However Richard, who was living in London at the time, became unhappy with the calibre of single British girls.
RICHARD’S TOP TIPS FOR DATING EASTERN EUROPEAN WOMEN
LEARN A FEW NATIVE PHRASES: Learn a few phrases in Russian or your chosen Eastern European language. It will immediately endear you to any woman you meet.
TRY THE LOCAL TINDER: Go to Russia or Eastern Europe for a few weeks and try the local Tinder or speed dating events out. Get the feel for the dating scene and make friends with local guys there – Eastern Europeans are often really approachable and will introduce you to their female mates.
BRING OUT YOUR INNER ALPHA MALE: Be decisive, manly and confident. Eastern European women don’t like that wishy-washy male who claims to like Sex and the City too and lets their girlfriend walk all over them. They don’t find that attractive so with women, you need to be the strong, stable and secure man who stands firm when challenged.
BE HONEST AND OPEN WHEN APPROACHING WOMEN: Unlike British women, Eastern European girls don’t like their men to skirt around the subject. When you see a beautiful Russian woman at the bar, be direct and go straight up to them. Tell her she’s beautiful and that you want to take her for dinner or a drink. Being honest usually works and as long as you seem alright, they’ll probably agree and go on a date with you. It’s less complicated than the UK dating scene.
Richard, who charges over $500 (£377) for a one-hour skype call with his clients, said: “Over time, I realised that I wasn’t really enjoying my dates with English women.
“By my thirties, I wanted to get married and meet someone who I wanted to settle down with. But I wasn’t finding the right girl in Britain and was wondering whether I needed to lower my standards to find a long-term partner.
“I could easily go out in central London on a Friday night, kiss a girl and probably take them home after. But none of these women were marriage material.
“However whilst I was in London, I did get a chance to date girls from different countries and I found my best experiences were with Russian women who had recently come to the UK.”
Richard’s pick-up dating business continued to thrive and he decided to go travelling in 2009. On his trip, his realised that Eastern European women – particularly Russian girls - were his favourite type of women.
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So in September 2011, Richard decided to permanently move to Moscow.
He said: “My business was doing well so I decided to go travelling and focus on my personal life. I went to 59 countries in total and during my travels, I realised that the most beautiful girls were in Eastern Europe.
“I went to the Ukraine, Lithuania, Lativia and Estonia amongst other countries, but when I got to Moscow I decided that Russian girls were my favourite in terms of looks and character.
"They had these excellent attributes in abundance so I decided to move there permanently and find the woman that I wanted to spend my life with.
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“When I came to Russia, I was amazed by how stunning and great these women were. But I told myself that I wasn’t going to settle down with the first girl I met in Moscow.
“After being in Britain for so long, I gave myself time to adjust to how beautiful Russian women were, rather than immediately strike up a long-term relationship.
“I was serious about making the right decision about my future and I was confident Russia was the right place to meet my wife.”
Richard has since seen a movement amongst successful British men who are travelling to Eastern Europe, particularly Russia, to meet their future wives.
He explained: “In recent years, there does seem to be a movement towards Eastern European women.
"There’s a rise of wealthy male entrepreneurs who are unsatisfied with their love life in the UK and realise that the solution is to go to Russia where it’s just easier for them to meet the best women.
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“But I believe any British guy who likes traditional family values, beauty and femininity, should go for an Eastern European woman.
“Although if a guy wants a wife to drink beer with, watch the football with and generally be one of the lads with – then don’t go for a Russian girl.”
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