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Retired sailor gives wife exact same Valentine’s Day card for last 61 years

A RETIRED sailor will give his wife a special Valentine’s Day card tomorrow — the exact same one he has for 61 years.

Tom McAlister, 81, first sent Jean, 78, the card anonymously in 1960 after she caught his eye while he was stationed in Singapore.

Retired sailor Tom McAlister will give his wife Jean a special Valentine’s Day card tomorrow — the exact same one he has for 61 years
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Retired sailor Tom McAlister will give his wife Jean a special Valentine’s Day card tomorrow — the exact same one he has for 61 yearsCredit: Solent News
Tom first sent Jean the card anonymously in 1960 after she caught his eye while he was stationed in Singapore
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Tom first sent Jean the card anonymously in 1960 after she caught his eye while he was stationed in SingaporeCredit: Solent News

Jean, then 17, had no idea who her secret admirer was but Tom — then a 20-year-old Able Seaman — soon revealed himself and asked her out.

For the past six decades, self-confessed romantic Tom has placed the same card on the mantelpiece in their home every Valentine’s Day.

Jean said: “I had no idea who it was from. A few weeks later, he came back from sea and brought it up. He wanted to see me again so I said ‘yes’.

“The following night, on our first date, he asked me to marry him. I had to play hard to get, so I said, ‘I’ll think about it’ — but he asked me every night and after two weeks, I finally said ‘yes’.”

Self-confessed romantic Tom has placed the same card on the mantelpiece in their home every Valentine's Day for the past six decades
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Self-confessed romantic Tom has placed the same card on the mantelpiece in their home every Valentine's Day for the past six decadesCredit: Solent News
Jean said: 'Our kids think it’s daft, but I think it’s romantic. I love him to bits for it'
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Jean said: 'Our kids think it’s daft, but I think it’s romantic. I love him to bits for it'Credit: Solent News
Tom and Jean on Changi Beach in Singapore in 1960
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Tom and Jean on Changi Beach in Singapore in 1960Credit: Solent News
The same card has appeared everywhere the pair have lived — for 61 years!
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The same card has appeared everywhere the pair have lived — for 61 years!Credit: Solent News

The couple, of Waterlooville, Hants, married in 1961 and have three kids — Glynn, 59, Carol-Joy, 57, and Wayne, 55.

Jean said: “For the next 60 years, the card has appeared on the mantelpiece everywhere we’ve lived.

“Our kids think it’s daft, but I think it’s romantic. I love him to bits for it.”

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