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REAL Housewives of New York City alum Bethenny Frankel has revealed her disappointment at failing to adopt a three-year-old child.

The 49-year-old reality television star claimed recently that she attempted to adopt a toddler, but said the process proved to be much more difficult than that of adopting an infant.

 Housewives of New York City alum Bethenny Frankel has revealed her disappointment at failing to adopt a three-year-old child
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Housewives of New York City alum Bethenny Frankel has revealed her disappointment at failing to adopt a three-year-old child

She wrote on Instagram: "The thing that surprises people is that once they get into the system, it is hard to get them out. Growing up, we always heard that everyone wants a baby and not an older kid.

"I tried a while back to adopt a 3-year-old and it was a harder process than a newborn. If it's like other family law systems, it's not as easy as the movie[s] make it."

Frankel left the comment on an Instagram post by about a nine-year-old boy from Oklahoma named Jordan who spoke with a local TV news outlet about being in foster care, soon prompting 5,000 adoption submissions from potential parents who saw the broadcast.

The story moved Frankel and her 10-year-old daughter Bryn Hoppy.

 Frankel left the comment on an Instagram post by People about a nine-year-old boy from Oklahoma named Jordan who spoke with a local TV news outlet about being in foster care, soon prompting 5,000 adoption submissions from potential parents who saw the broadcast
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Frankel left the comment on an Instagram post by People about a nine-year-old boy from Oklahoma named Jordan who spoke with a local TV news outlet about being in foster care, soon prompting 5,000 adoption submissions from potential parents who saw the broadcast

"I will adopt him," Frankel wrote in the comments section. "Bryn said 'momma you should adopt him.'"

The multi-millionaire reality star has previously expressing interest in adopting a five-year-old girl who was abandoned at a bus station by her father in 2016, who later plead guilty to murdering her mother.

"How do I adopt this child?" Bethenny had tweeted at the time, along with a link to the tragic story. She added: "I am serious."

However, less than an hour later, the Bravo star bluntly said she found it impossible to adopt the child.

 Frankel and her 10-year-old daughter Bryn Hoppy wanted to help
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 Frankel and her 10-year-old daughter Bryn Hoppy wanted to help
 She formerly starred in Real Housewives
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She formerly starred in Real Housewives
 The star said that adoption isn't as easy as it is in the movies
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The star said that adoption isn't as easy as it is in the movies
 She is mom to 10-year-old Bryn
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She is mom to 10-year-old Bryn
 She said Bryn was also in favour of the adoption
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She said Bryn was also in favour of the adoption
 She shares Bryn with ex husband Jason Hoppy
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She shares Bryn with ex husband Jason Hoppy
 She expressed her concern that kids get lost in the system and not adopted to families
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She expressed her concern that kids get lost in the system and not adopted to families
 The mom-of-one was disappointed at finding it hard to adopt
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The mom-of-one was disappointed at finding it hard to adopt
 She has been dating producer Paul Bernon since 2018
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She has been dating producer Paul Bernon since 2018

"Lawyer says once w the state a private adoption impossible which is now upsetting me more. That is bulls**t," she wrote at the time.

"There's a misconception that everyone wants an infant. Bc of this rule, babies r the only option. Once in system kids r lost. Sad," she said.

Bethenny shares daughter Bryn with her ex-husband Jason Hoppy.

They married in 2010 and filed for divorce in 2013.

She has been dating producer Paul Bernon since 2018.

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