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MATT James broke down in tears after a heated confrontation with his estranged father, Manny, in The Bachelor's two-part finale.

In a preview from the upcoming episodes, the 29-year-old said he had "needed" during his childhood and didn't want to hear "excuses".

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Matt James broke down in tears after confronting his estranged dad Manny
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Matt James broke down in tears after confronting his estranged dad MannyCredit: ABC
Manny told Matt: 'Do you know what I went through with your mom?'
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Manny told Matt: 'Do you know what I went through with your mom?'Credit: ABC

was raised by his mother, Patty, after his parents divorced when he was young following Manny's infidelity.

The reality star was visibly emotional as he came face to face with Manny at a hotel in .

"When I needed you, you weren't there!" a hurt-looking Matt told his father.

Manny shot back: "Do you know what I went through with your mom?"

They faced off in a heated discussion in the two-part Bachelor finale
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They faced off in a heated discussion in the two-part Bachelor finaleCredit: ABC
Matt said, 'When I needed you, you weren't there'
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Matt said, 'When I needed you, you weren't there'Credit: ABC

Matt countered, "I don't want you to make excuses," to which Manny said: "Nobody's perfect, son."

Matt later told the cameras how his parents' volatile dynamic has affected his relationships today.

"There's still a lot of fear based on what I've seen with my family in the past," he said,

"I don't want to make those same mistakes that caused my family to be torn apart."

He also spoke to his beloved mom, Patty, who raised him and his brother
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He also spoke to his beloved mom, Patty, who raised him and his brotherCredit: ABC

Matt then spoke to his beloved mom, Patty, who said: "Feelings come and go. People fall in and out of love and love is not the be all, end all."

The ABC star started sobbing on camera as he told producers: "I feel like everything I was working towards is starting to crumble. I don't know how to go on."

He has talked about his tough childhood in the past, revealing back in January that his father cheated on his mother.

“There [are] very tough conversations that I have with individuals that allude to where I’m at in my life and why it’s been so difficult for me to be in a relationship,” Matt said on the Tamron Hall Show.

Matt's parents divorced when he was young after Manny cheated on Patty
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Matt's parents divorced when he was young after Manny cheated on Patty
Matt is now heading into the fantasy suites with Rachael, Bri and Michelle
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Matt is now heading into the fantasy suites with Rachael, Bri and MichelleCredit: Getty Images - Getty

“A lot of that stems from my dad and my mom’s relationship. I saw what infidelity looked like at a young age," he went on.

"I saw family members that were against the relationship and doubling down on it after seeing the infidelity between my dad and my mom.”

After his parents' split, Matt and his older brother, John, were raised by Patty on her own.

“[Infidelity] is such a selfish thing to happen,” Matt added.

He spoke out after Rachael was slammed for attending a 'racist' plantation-style party in 2018
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He spoke out after Rachael was slammed for attending a 'racist' plantation-style party in 2018Credit: American Broadcasting Companies

“For it to take place when you’ve made that commitment to somebody - and knowing how serious I take that commitment - is why I want to make sure that I’m going about this process as seamless[ly] and focused as I can so I’m not putting someone in the situation to get hurt.”

Next week, heads into  with final three , 24, , 27, , 24.

Rachael has been facing backlash after resurfaced photos from 2018 that show her attending an .

Photos resurfaced from the college party
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Photos resurfaced from the college party

After being labeled “racist” by fans, she  in a lengthy Instagram statement. 

She then  and admitted she was "tired" of "not saying anything" through .

 added: “If you are in my comments or anywhere defending me or telling people that I did nothing wrong or that there is nothing to be hurt or offended about, please stop."

Last week, Matt  about the show's  with Rachael and host Chris Harrison at the center - calling their behavior “devastating."

He wrote in a statement: “The past few weeks have been some of the most challenging of my life.

"And while there are several episodes left of the season, it is important that I take the time to address the troubling information that has come to light since we wrapped filming.

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