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The Bachelor Matt James ‘picked the wrong woman’ and was ‘failed’ by the show, friend claims

THE BACHELOR Matt James "picked the wrong woman" and was ultimately "failed" by the controversial dating show, a friend exclusively told The Sun.

, who recently from finalist and longtime host , will reveal his winner on the ABC hit's finale next week.

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Matt James 29, has had a tough run on the dating show
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Matt James 29, has had a tough run on the dating showCredit: ABC
Rachael Kirkconnell is under fire for attending an 'antebellum party' at her college in 2018
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Rachael Kirkconnell is under fire for attending an 'antebellum party' at her college in 2018Credit: Instagram
A family friend said Matt should have picked Michelle Young
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A family friend said Matt should have picked Michelle YoungCredit: Getty Images - Getty

The friend said the former football star, 29, "was under so much pressure over who to choose," and ultimately made a bad pick.

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As The Sun previously reported, Matt chose and "happily dated" Rachael, but later as racism allegations emerged in the public eye.

But a pal thinks he should have chosen Minnesota teacher , 27, out of the , which also includes , 24.

The friend explained to The Sun: "I felt Michelle was his best match, and they seemed like they connected. She's as silly and quirky as he is, and athletic and fun.

"I really think if he had met Michelle outside of the show, she would have been the one for him."

Bri Springs is also in the final three after winning over Matt James
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Bri Springs is also in the final three after winning over Matt JamesCredit: Getty Images
Rachael was 'blindsided' when Matt suddenly dumped her
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Rachael was 'blindsided' when Matt suddenly dumped herCredit: Instagram
Matt's final rose pick will be revealed on next week's episode
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Matt's final rose pick will be revealed on next week's episodeCredit: Getty Images - Getty

As Matt failed to find love on the show, the hit series also "failed" him, the friend insisted.

The pal felt the network had a "great opportunity" when they cast Matt as the first Black Bachelor, but said producers "failed" him and the female contestants when they cast current and past Bachelor Nation stars despite "racist" behavior.

She said: "They took several steps backwards because they didn't do enough research. Research that seemed pretty simple."

Michelle joined the Bachelor cast after the season started
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Michelle joined the Bachelor cast after the season startedCredit: Getty Images - Getty
Bri Springs is also one of Matt's final three women
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Bri Springs is also one of Matt's final three womenCredit: Instagram

The source also condemned Chris' response to Rachael's photo scandal, when he to former Bachelorette and Extra! host Rachel Lindsay.

The friend said: "The way Chris handled [Rachael's scandal] shows they just wanted a Black face but no parts of the Black experience.

"I think Chris's run should be over. Not his career, but his time on this show should probably be done.

"There's a lot of self work he needs to do and it's not up to Black people to teach him where he's lacking.

"Matt shouldn't have been placed in that situation, to be bigger than the entire network, though his statement was great."

The pal thinks the show's first Black lead was 'failed' by producers
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The pal thinks the show's first Black lead was 'failed' by producersCredit: Getty Images - Getty
Bachelor host Chris Harrison has stepped down from his duties on the show after facing criticism about Rachael's resurfaced photos
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Bachelor host Chris Harrison has stepped down from his duties on the show after facing criticism about Rachael's resurfaced photosCredit: Getty Images - Getty

Matt broke his silence regarding the recent controversy in an Instagram post, calling the scandal "incredibly disappointing," "devastating" and "heartbreaking."

He went on: "Chris' failure to receive and understand the emotional labor that my friend Rachel Lindsay was taking on by graciously and patiently explaining the racist history of the Antebellum South, a painful history that every American should understand intimately, was troubling and painful to watch.

"As Black people and allies immediately knew and understood, it was a clear reflection of a much larger issue that The Bachelor franchise has fallen short of addressing adequately for years."

"I will continue to process this experience, and you will hear more from me in the end."

Bachelor fans will soon find out who Matt James picks as his winner
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Bachelor fans will soon find out who Matt James picks as his winnerCredit: Getty Images - Getty
Matt issued a lengthy statement about the accusations, calling them 'heartbreaking'
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Matt issued a lengthy statement about the accusations, calling them 'heartbreaking'Credit: ABC

The star's friend said those close to him are "incredibly proud" of him for addressing the situation, and hope he never gets back together with Rachael.

The friend added: "I had stopped watching The Bachelor years ago, but tuned in especially for Matt. He is the sweetest.

"I see him moving on the way he always has, with his head held high and his ambition even higher."

After being branded "racist" by fans for and "liking" photos of the Confederate flag, Rachael broke her silence.

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In the , she said: "I hear you, and I'm here to say I was wrong. 

"At one point, I didn’t recognize how offensive and racist my actions were, but that doesn't excuse them."

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