GETTING back with Tommy Fury is the biggest mistake you’ll ever make, Molly-Mae – trust me.
He wasn’t thinking about you on that night in North Macedonia, nor was he thinking about you when you confronted him about cheating and he refused to deny it.
Both those times, the only person Tommy was thinking about was himself.
And the after thought wouldn’t have been you either, it would have been how on earth he could try and save his hammy bacon.
When I first got called about him cheating on you I was gobsmacked and initially, I refused to believe it.
Until, that was, it was made crystal clear from those close to you that he had – and you knew it too.
Tommy’s denial to my story at the time was as wobbly as jelly, and embarrassing to say the least.
“Tommy is horrified by the false allegations of cheating being circulated by the media and he’s consulting his lawyers,” his rep emailed me – many, many hours after first being asked for comment.
To this day, I’ve not heard a bean from his lawyers and that’s because what we wrote was true.
Tommy knows that, and so does Molly-Mae.
So why are you back in his arms, Molly-Mae? Kissing him on the stroke of midnight like he’s some cruiserweight Prince Charming.
Admittedly, as a childless mid-thirties woman, I do not understand the primal instinct of wanting to keep a family together for the sake of a child.
And, as I now watch as a number of my happily sprogged-up mates go through hideously nasty divorces with their love-rat soon-to-be-ex-husbands, I realise that breaking up is the last – and ultimately, most emotionally draining and exhausting – resort.
But mark my words, Molly-Mae, taking Tommy back means a lifetime of looking over your shoulder or peering at his iPhone wondering who the hell he’s texting.
People can say what they like, but men will always think with one thing and it certainly isn’t their brain.
Maybe that is why, after your New Year’s Eve kiss, Tommy went out clubbing with his mates….
When the news first came out, you were so stoic and strong when it would have felt like your entire world was crashing and burning around you.
My ex-fiancé cheated on me and I honestly wanted to die.
An open phone policy, face-timing while abroad, endless promises and apologies…You’ll find yourself on Reddit threads: “Is my partner cheating?”
The heartache and humiliation of a very public engagement ending with him pulling not just pints in the pub he worked in but the enormously tall barmaid will never leave me.
And nor will the memory of that broken trust. The person I loved most in the world, the person I would have taken a bullet for ripped out my heart and stamped on it.
And Tommy did that to you too.
The only difference between us - minus the other woman’s job and the fact my love rat had a far longer indiscretion – is that Tommy wants redemption and a second chance.
But the trust is gone.
And no matter how many times you try to tell yourself you can trust him, your gut will gently remind you that you can’t.
There will be endless things you’ll do to try and rebuild it, you know the things our friends who have been cheated on end up doing with their partners.
An open phone policy, face-timing while abroad, endless promises and apologies…
You’ll find yourself on Reddit threads: “Is my partner cheating?” “Ten signs your man is playing away.”
You are doom-scrolling for the inevitable.
Even if you manage to just about get past it and start afresh, I promise you that niggling doubt will be in the pit of your stomach until the end of time.
AFTER five years together, Molly-Mae and Tommy Fury split up in August 2024.
At around 4pm on Wednesday, August 14, Molly-Mae and Tommy suffer an explosive showdown and Molly-Mae announces her split from fiancé Tommy Fury, saying ' I never imagined our story would end, especially not this way'.
An hour later Tommy shares a separate and brief statement confirming they have parted ways, and thanks Molly-Mae for making him 'a dad'.
The real reason they split emerges and on Thursday, August 15 The Sun reveals how Molly-Mae learned Tommy had cheated on her - leading to an explosive showdown.
On Saturday, August 17, The Sun reveals how Molly-Mae had been sent an upsetting video showing Tommy kissing a girl in a nightclub in North Macedonia on a lads holiday.
Exactly one week after the split a Danish woman accused of getting close to Tommy speaks to The Sun. On Wednesday, August 21, she denies she is the girl who kissed Tommy.
Your millions of fans will watch the aftermath of your break-up play out on your Prime Video series.
And now it seems they will see you trying to put the pieces back together too.
The production team will certainly be hoping so as it’s a recipe – so our insiders tell us – for ratings gold.
But I for one hope you don’t.
Don’t do this to yourself, Molly-Mae.
Take it from a worldly-wise woman closer to 40 now than 30, it is only going to end in tears, and they won’t be Tommy’s.
