Growing up in a ‘sex circus’ and pregnant at 12 : Inside Aretha Franklin’s secret torment
Pregnant at 14, a string of famous lovers and having four children by four men - Aretha Franklin's personal life was a roller coaster of ups and downs
HER voice has moved millions to tears, with songs full of longing and heartache.
Yet behind those lyrics lies an even more dramatic story still.
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Because The Queen of Soul – renowned as one the greatest soul singers of all times and who passed away today aged 76 – had a troubled personal life that included a pregnancy at the tender age of just 12 and four children by four fathers.
The details were laid bare in a 2014 biography by David Ritz.
While it was called Respect, it pulled no punches in describing the singer’s journey to being an international singing legend and chronicling the ego which grew over time to be just as big as her name.
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As Ritz made clear, even Aretha’s early upbringing in Detroit was colourful.
Her father Clarence "C.L" Lewis was renowned as a "promiscuous" gospel preacher at the Bethel Baptist Church where he was minister, providing far more than sermons at his gatherings.
In fact, orgies were so common that fellow singer Ray Charles labelled the church a "sex circus".
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At just 12, she fell pregnant by a school friend called Donald Burk.
Aretha gave birth just two months before her 13th birthday to a baby boy she named Clarence after her father and who was the first of two babies she would have before the age of fifteen.
The second, Edward, was named after his father, a local friend.
Motherhood did not curtail Aretha’s burgeoning musical ambition.
From an early age she harboured ambitions to become a famous pop singer, and leaving grandmother Rachel and sister Erma to take charge of her children she dropped out of school to pursue her goal.
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It was around this time she was introduced to singer Sam Cooke, who later told Ritz that he had enjoyed more than her legendary voice when she joined him for a night in an Atlanta motel room. He went on to write You Send Me about her.
At 19 Aretha married local ladies' man called Ted White who promptly assigned himself as her manager and the couple had a child - another boy, Ted Jr.
By then she was well on her way to international fame – at the age of just 16 she had already toured with Martin Luther King, Jr. and in 1968 sang at his funeral – but while her reputation soared her home life quickly soured, her marriage mired in alcohol and acrimony.
"She was drinking so much we thought she was on the verge of a breakdown," revealed sister Carolyn.
Aretha finally kicked White out in 1968, but her alcohol problem just got worse.
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Her ego grew in direct alignment with her success, leading Dennis Edwards, lead singer of the Temptations - and another of Aretha’s lovers - to suggest that she saw some of her boyfriends as little more than servants.
Nor did she dally when it came to meeting someone else after the breakdown of her marriage, and by early 1970 she had given birth to her fourth son, Kecalf, by her then road manager Ken Cunningham.
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By 1978 Aretha was ready to tie the knot again, this time to film star Glynn Turman.
Yet once more despite a seemingly glamorous life on the surface it seems Aretha could still not find the domestic happiness she longed for and the marriage was over within six years.
Love life like a soap opera
With another failed relationship behind her, Aretha’s friend Ruth Bowen said Aretha lost her grip on reality.
"Aretha gets up every day and starts creating her own reality,"; said Ruth. "At some point she started seeing her love life like a soap opera.
"She began writing a soap opera script – just making up s***, fantasising about men and relationships that never existed.
That became a new pattern for her – making up stories about these beautiful love affairs that happened only in her mind."
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Sadly it seems that is where her happiness was destined to stay: while on new Years Day 2012 Aretha announced that she had got engaged to longtime companion Willie Wilkerson – veteran of two previous engagements - she called it off within a matter of weeks claiming things were "moving too fast."
She never married again - perhaps no man was a match for her.
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